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Something's felt off in your relationship lately, but you can't quite put your finger on it. You don't want to play games and you just want to know what's going on. If he's been acting a little distant and closed off recently, it could just be a normal dip in the relationship, or it could mean that he's thinking about leaving. Read on so you can figure out the truth behind the way he's been acting lately.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed professional counselor, Tara Vossenkemper, founder of Tara Vossenkemper Consulting, LLC. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- If he closes himself off and makes little effort to communicate with you, that's a sign that he may no longer be invested in the relationship.
- If the two of you are less physically intimate than you used to be and there's no other explanation, it could be that the relationship is over for him.
- If you never have fun together or laugh and share jokes anymore, that can be a sign that he's ready to check out of the relationship.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
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