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It’s never fun to get into an argument with your spouse. But when your wife yells at you constantly, it can sometimes be tough to even figure out why it happens (or how to get her to stop). Fortunately, there are some common reasons why your wife might be resorting to yelling, as well as tried-and-true methods you can use to calm her down. For expert advice on getting the yelling to stop and what to do if it goes too far, keep reading.
This article is based on an interview with our relationship counselor, Jason Polk, owner of Colorado Relationship Recovery. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Your wife might be yelling at you because she’s stressed or she wants you to take her seriously.
- She may also be yelling if she hasn’t learned any other ways to communicate with you.
- To get your wife to stop yelling, spend 5 to 10 minutes apart, then come back and talk through the issue.
- If you are in an abusive relationship, call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at 800-799-7233.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
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- ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/anger-how-it-affects-people
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- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/7-toxic-behaviors-you-should-never-tolerate
- ↑ https://www.regain.us/advice/marriage/20-signs-of-disrespect-in-marriage-when-to-draw-the-line/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201702/the-one-crucial-thing-do-when-your-partner-is-upset
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/conflict-resolution/
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- ↑ https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210518-the-hidden-load-how-thinking-of-everything-holds-mums-back
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2018/08/how-to-help-your-spouse-cope-with-work-stress
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happy-healthy-relationships/202210/how-stop-the-yelling-in-your-relationship
- ↑ https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/11-common-patterns-verbal-abuse/
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