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Are you trying to figure out if your relationship is worth the time and energy? Whether you’ve only had 2 dates or you’re going on 2 years, there are plenty of ways to answer this question. In this article, we’ll cover the questions you need to ask if you want to figure out if this relationship is worth holding on to. Just know, it’s totally normal and okay to be asking these kinds of questions, and the fact that you’re here is not a sign your relationship is automatically in trouble. By examining your relationship, you’ll develop a deeper understanding of what you want, and where your relationship needs to go.
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- QuestionHow do you tell someone you don't want to continue dating?Lauren SandersLauren Sanders is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Dating for the Soul. With over four years of experience, she specializes in helping singles find love. Lauren is also the author of Lipstick Faith: A Collection of Inspirational Writings and Life Lessons, You Deserve the World, Rainbows and Strawberries: 100 Devotions for the Brighter Side of Life, and Let's Go Outside Mommy. Lauren holds BS from Dillard University and a Masters from The University of North Georgia.
Matchmaker & Dating CoachBe completely open and honest about your feelings. Ensure the individual has your full attention and is not distracted so they will be able to fully receive your message. Do not break up over text or phone — it is more appropriate to end a relationship in person if at all possible
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- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/setting-healthy-boundaries-in-relationships.htm
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/when-your-family-doesnt-approve-of-your-partner/
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