This article was co-authored by Lena Dicken, Psy.D and by How.com.vn staff writer, Bailey Cho. Dr. Lena Dicken is a Clinical Psychologist based in Santa Monica, California. With over eight years of experience, Dr. Dicken specializes in therapy for anxiety, depression, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. She utilizes an integrative approach combining Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral, and Mindfulness-based therapies. Dr. Dicken holds a BS in Integrative Medicine from the University of Hawaii at Manoa, an MA in Counseling Psychology from Argosy University Los Angeles, and a Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D) in Clinical Psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology at Westwood. Dr. Dicken’s work has been featured in GOOP, The Chalkboard Magazine, and in numerous other articles and podcasts. She is a licensed psychologist with the state of California.
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“How are you feeling?” is a casual way to show interest in someone’s health or well-being, especially if they’re going through a difficult situation. In this article, we’ll explain when and how to use this thoughtful question, plus explain the differences to “How are you feeling today?” We’ll also provide example responses and alternative phrases you can use to let your loved ones know you truly care about them.
Things You Should Know
- “How are you feeling?” is a casual way to ask someone about their health or well-being, especially if they’re experiencing a tough time.
- If a loved one asks this question, be honest about your emotions and explain what’s happening in your life. Or, use “I’m okay, thanks” to politely move forward.
- Generally, “How are you feeling?” is used when you suspect someone isn’t okay, while “How are you feeling today?” is used after they confirm they’re sick or unwell.
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References
- ↑ https://writingtips.org/how-are-you-feeling-now/
- ↑ https://counselling.students.yorku.ca/sites/default/files/2020-04/tmh-infographic-how-to-check-in-on-someone.pdf
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2011/02/how-are-you-feeling
- ↑ https://writingtips.org/how-are-you-feeling-now/
- ↑ https://www.fastcompany.com/90634810/5-good-ways-to-answer-the-question-how-are-you
- ↑ https://www.fastcompany.com/90634810/5-good-ways-to-answer-the-question-how-are-you
- ↑ https://writingtips.org/how-are-you-feeling-now/
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2020/07/28/smarter-living/coronavirus-how-to-check-in-with-a-friend.html
- ↑ https://au.reachout.com/articles/how-to-ask-a-friend-if-theyre-ok
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