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You know of the "alpha male" as the leader of the pack, the guy everyone looks up to. A lot of people think these alpha qualities are innate, but the reality is that anyone can become alpha with the right mix of confidence, discipline, positivity, and empathy. Read on to learn everything you need to know to become a strong, independent alpha who everyone looks up to.
Things You Should Know
- Commit to core values and stand up for what you believe is right.
- Reach for goals that push you out of your comfort zone and help you grow as a person.
- Take care of yourself so people believe you're capable of taking care of others.
- Look inward to find happiness and fulfillment.
Steps
Community Q&A
- QuestionDo you need to be better at everything than other people to be an alpha male?How.com.vn Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerHow.com.vn Staff EditorStaff AnswerNot at all! No one can be the best at everything. Part of being an alpha is understanding your own strengths and weaknesses. You know when to delegate something to someone else or let them take over because they're better at it than you are. On top of that, a true alpha is always seeking to learn and better themselves—you can't do that if you already think you're better at everything. No matter how much you know, there's always room to learn something. - QuestionShould an alpha male keep facial hair, or smooth shave?Community AnswerIt depends on the man and the type of face you have. Experiment with both and keenly view other people's reactions and how they view you. If you do keep facial hair, keep it neat and trimmed. The "right look" varies with the era and local preferences, so bear that in mind too.
- QuestionDoes an alpha male say "thank you" or "bless you"?Community AnswerYes, they do. Being an alpha male doesn't have to mean being rude.
Tips
Tips from our Readers
- Be kind to the people around you. Most guys think that being aggressive will prove their toughness, but this just makes them come off looking like a jerk.
- Focus on improving yourself first and foremost, rather than comparing yourself to others. This is a much more powerful perspective to have!
- Remember, if you have to tell people you're an Alpha Male, you actually aren't one. Actions speak louder than words.
References
- ↑ https://www.nih.gov/health-information/physical-wellness-toolkit
- ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/assertive/art-20044644
- ↑ https://www.berkeleywellbeing.com/core-values.html
- ↑ https://extension.psu.edu/realistic-and-optimistic-managing-mindset-in-challenging-times
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2018/05/5-ways-to-project-confidence-in-front-of-an-audience
- ↑ https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/9-important-ways-that-will-make-you-treat-people-better.html
- ↑ https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/9-important-ways-that-will-make-you-treat-people-better.html
- ↑ Lisa Shield. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 11 March 2021.
- ↑ https://sheshouldrun.org/blog/6-ways-you-can-make-a-positive-change-in-your-community/
- ↑ https://www.ucop.edu/local-human-resources/_files/performance-appraisal/How%20to%20write%20SMART%20Goals%20v2.pdf
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/enlightened-living/201508/getting-your-growth-zone
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/topics/personality/willpower
- ↑ https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/caring-for-your-mental-health
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-darkness/201303/self-sufficiency-essential-aspect-well-being
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/couples-thrive/202011/how-set-and-respect-boundaries-your-spouse
About This Article
If you want to be seen as an alpha male, speak with confidence in order to gain respect from others. Walk into a room with your head held high, look people in the eyes when you’re talking to them, and use expansive gestures to fill the room with your presence, because these mannerisms project strength and authority. In addition, practice listening to others, as this shows that you are confident enough to accept others' opinions. For more tips on becoming an alpha male, like dressing well and learning to flirt, keep reading!
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