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We all know someone who captures everyone’s attention as soon as they walk into the room, who wins people over easily with their infectious energy. These people possess an important quality: charisma. Charisma is the ability to attract and influence others.[1] It’s essentially a blend of charm, confidence, and enthusiasm that makes someone magnetic to the people around them. Luckily, charisma isn’t just something people are born with. It’s also a skill you can practice and cultivate, and we’ll tell you how. Keep reading to learn how to exude charisma in any situation!
Things You Should Know
- Charisma is the ability to attract, influence, and charm other people. Charismatic people are often likable, confident, passionate, and empathetic.
- Using engaged body language, making eye contact with people, and smiling more can help you come across as more charismatic.
- It’s also helpful to maintain a positive attitude, talk about your interests and passions, and share your sense of humor.
Steps
Expert Q&A
- QuestionHow can I make my body language positive?
Sheila A. AndersonSheila A. Anderson is a Certified Image Consultant, International Branding Icon, and the Founder of Image Power Play, an impression management and personal branding company. With over three decades of experience, she specializes in empowering corporate professionals to raise their personal image to meet the value of their brand. Sheila is a Certified Image Consultant with The Image Resource Network and a Certified Universal Style Consultant with The Universal Style International. Sheila is a member of the C-Suite Network Advisors and the author of the book, I.C.U., The Comprehensive Guide to Breathing Life Back Into Your Personal Brand.
Certified Image Consultant & International Branding IconTry to be as open and energetic as possible. Smiling, making direct eye contact, leaning inward as you talk, and using expressive hand gestures are great ways to exude positive body language. - QuestionWhat does it mean to mirror someone?Sheila A. AndersonSheila A. Anderson is a Certified Image Consultant, International Branding Icon, and the Founder of Image Power Play, an impression management and personal branding company. With over three decades of experience, she specializes in empowering corporate professionals to raise their personal image to meet the value of their brand. Sheila is a Certified Image Consultant with The Image Resource Network and a Certified Universal Style Consultant with The Universal Style International. Sheila is a member of the C-Suite Network Advisors and the author of the book, I.C.U., The Comprehensive Guide to Breathing Life Back Into Your Personal Brand.
Certified Image Consultant & International Branding IconMirroring someone is a special technique where you mimic another person's behavior. It's actually a great way to exude charisma—not only does mirroring imply a level of understanding and empathy, but it also makes your conversational partner feel good. - QuestionHow can I become more charismatic quickly?Sheila A. AndersonSheila A. Anderson is a Certified Image Consultant, International Branding Icon, and the Founder of Image Power Play, an impression management and personal branding company. With over three decades of experience, she specializes in empowering corporate professionals to raise their personal image to meet the value of their brand. Sheila is a Certified Image Consultant with The Image Resource Network and a Certified Universal Style Consultant with The Universal Style International. Sheila is a member of the C-Suite Network Advisors and the author of the book, I.C.U., The Comprehensive Guide to Breathing Life Back Into Your Personal Brand.
Certified Image Consultant & International Branding IconTry changing up your vocabulary and tone! Sprinkling positive, uplifting words and genuine compliments into your day-to-day conversations helps build meaningful connections with the people around you.
Tips
Warnings
- Don't try to force charisma. It takes practice to learn how to be charismatic. If you try to change your whole demeanor too quickly, your behavior may seem bizarre and untrustworthy.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/charisma
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communications-matter/202007/how-be-more-charismatic
- ↑ Sheila A. Anderson. Certified Image Consultant & International Branding Icon. Expert Interview. 19 July 2021
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/nonverbal-communication.htm
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-influence/202201/7-easy-ways-become-more-likable
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200403/the-art-the-compliment
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communications-matter/202007/how-be-more-charismatic
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4844478/
- ↑ https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/active_listening
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/warm-personality
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/six_habits_of_highly_empathic_people1
- ↑ https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20171027-the-art-and-science-of-being-charismatic
- ↑ https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/self-help/tips-and-support/raise-low-self-esteem/
- ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/self-esteem#self-esteem-building
- ↑ https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/the-power-of-positive-thinking
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About This Article
To be charismatic, try to be positive and optimistic when you're around people since people are drawn to positivity. Also, make people feel special about themselves by really listening to what they have to say and offering them genuine compliments, which will make them want to be around you more. When you're talking with people, try to stand up straight, smile, and make eye contact to show that you're confident and engaged in the conversation. To learn how to build confidence so you can be more charismatic, keep reading!
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