Erika Kaplan

Dating Older or Younger: How Much of an Age Difference Is Acceptable?

Does age really matter in relationships? Or is it just a number? If you’re interested in someone much older or younger than you are, you’re probably wondering if you can make the relationship work. The good news is, ...

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Tell if an Older Guy Likes You

Is that cute older guy flirting with you or just being friendly? You might have experience figuring out if guys your own age are into you, but how can you tell when there’s an age gap? When it comes to older guys, ther...

Why Am I Attracted to Older Men?

Do you find yourself feeling attracted to older men? You might be interested in figuring out why; is it psychological, or something else entirely? The truth is, you can’t control who you’re attracted to. And even tho...

12 Things to Consider Before Dating an Older Man

If you’ve been on the dating scene for a while, you may be getting tired of the immaturity of people your own age. Setting your sights on an older man might seem like a logical next step, but it’s important to weigh...

10 Polite Ways to Reject a Date Nicely over Text, with Examples

You’ve just received a text from someone interested in you⁠—they want to go on a date! Unfortunately, the spark isn’t there for you. Rejecting someone politely and respectfully, especially over text, can be awkwa...

Move on from a Crush with These Helpful Tips

Stop obsessing over your crush (even if you see them every day)Few things in life are more delicious than a crush—or more painful, if you can’t be together. When you really dig somebody, realizing it won’t work out...

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Start a Conversation with Your Crush Without It Being Awkward

Having a not awkward conversation with your crush is possible and can be so fun that it leads to more hanging out. Learn about how to talk to your crush like to a friend, without sweating in winters. Make playful comment...

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Deal with a Mother in Law Who Hates You

Dealing with a toxic mother-in-law can be frustrating and confusing. You might wonder what you've done to deserve her hatred or if there's anything you can do to make her like you. Thankfully, there's a lot you can do to...

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Stop Being a Simp

If you find yourself constantly fawning over people who don’t give you the time of day, you could be acting like a simp. In the modern age, simp is a term used for someone who puts themselves in a submissive position i...

8 Things You Should Do when Going to Your Boyfriend's House for the First Time

When you’re dating someone new, being invited over to his house for the first time is exciting. It can also feel a little daunting, especially if he lives with his family or roommates. If you’re preparing to head ove...

Can 20-Year Age Gap Relationships Really Work?

Is age just a number, or is dating outside your generation a big deal?You see it in Hollywood all the time: a 20-year-old on the arm of a 50-year-old (usually, it’s a young woman with an older man). There’s a stigma ...

How to Spot a Clingy Boyfriend (& Why He Acts That Way)

Telltale signs of a clingy boyfriend and how to cope with his behaviorBeing loved and desired by your boyfriend feels amazing, but how can you tell when he’s starting to get too clingy? We’re here to help. Clingines...

10 Conversation Topics for Meeting His Parents and Making a Great Impression

Meeting your significant other’s parents for the first time can be nerve-racking. You want them to like you, but what should you talk about? Whether you’re frantically searching for conversation topics on the car rid...

How to Break a Soul Tie with an Ex

Forming soul ties to significant others is all too common—and if you still feel bound to your ex, cutting those connections might be your best way to move on. Soul ties are deep emotional bonds that make you feel like ...

How to Take It Slow in a Relationship to Make It Last

Experts give advice on slowing things down with your partnerWhen you’re first starting a new relationship, taking things slowly is a great way to protect your heart and meet the right person for you. Fortunately, there...

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Tell Your Crush You Like Them in a Note

A crush will always be just a crush unless you let them know how you feel. If you’re too shy to tell your crush that you like them in person, you could write them a note. Keep it short, simple, and to the point. Explai...

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Surprise Your Boyfriend

Surprising your boyfriend can be a great way to bring the two of you closer. Surprises leave a strong, emotional impression and can even seem to stop time, shaking up expectations and making you both feel good. From spec...

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Make Your Boyfriend's Parents Love You

When you’ve been dating someone for a while, it’s only natural to want their parents to love you, too. Making a good first impression and fostering a relationship with them will help you get on their good side (and s...

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Meet Your Girlfriend's Parents

So, the time has come for you to meet your girlfriend’s parents. You might be feeling a mixture of nervousness, excitement and fear. You’ll want her folks to like you, but you’ll also want to be yourself. You ca...

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Know if You Like Someone or if You're Just Lonely

New relationships bring up a lot of questions: “Is this going anywhere?” “Do they really like me?” “Do I really like them?”. Answering these questions sincerely can help you avoid heartache down the line and ...