This article was co-authored by Erika Kaplan and by How.com.vn staff writer, Glenn Carreau. Erika Kaplan is a Dating Coach and Matchmaker for Three Day Rule, an exclusive matchmaking company across nine cities in the United States. With over six years of experience, Erika specializes in helping singles find quality matches through date coaching and premium matchmaking services. Erika graduated from Penn State with a Bachelor’s degree in Public Relations. She worked for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly, and Men’s Journal before leaving publishing to pursue her passion for connecting people. Erika has been featured on Lifetime, the Philadelphia Inquirer, and CBS as well as in Thrillist, Elite Daily, Men’s Health, Fast Company, and Refinery29.
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Being loved and desired by your boyfriend feels amazing, but how can you tell when he’s starting to get too clingy? We’re here to help. Clinginess can strain a relationship if your boyfriend refuses to give you alone time or gets jealous of everyone you talk to, so addressing the issue as soon as you pick up on it is essential. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of warning signs of your boyfriend being too clingy and consulted expert professional matchmaker Erika Kaplan on the best ways to deal with clingy behavior in relationships!
Things You Should Know
- A clingy boyfriend may text or call you constantly and get upset when you spend time with others. He may neglect his own friendships and hobbies.
- You might have a clingy boyfriend if he’s overly agreeable, shying away from voicing his opinions but needing lots of validation and reassurance.
- Deal with a clingy boyfriend by setting boundaries and discussing the situation with him. Build trust together so he doesn’t feel the need to be clingy!
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