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和伴侣朝夕相处,很容易就会注意到对方发信息的习惯。当另一半开始手机不离手,或是总和某个人聊天,你可能会觉得很可疑。你的猜忌是合理的。本文会教你如何判断伴侣和别人发短信聊天算不算出轨,帮助你做出决定。
步骤
什么是精神出轨?
伴侣出轨有哪些征兆?
- 他们对手机遮遮掩掩。也许他们最近开始给手机设置密码,或是对你借用他们的手机感到紧张。如果伴侣突然间对手机过度保护,可能里面有不想让你看到的东西。这不一定是出轨的确切迹象,但绝对是一个非常危险的信号。[7]
- 你有时候无法联系上他们。他们可能声称手机没电了或是正在开会,但你知道他们在说谎。他们可能在“失联”的那段时间出去做了一些可疑的事情。尤其当对方经常失联,比如说一周好几次找不到人,出轨的可能性更大。[8]
- 两个人没有从前亲密。这里说的亲密可以是情感上的或身体上的。如果你发现自己和另一半聊天少了,或是过性生活的频率降低了,也许是有其他人满足了他们身心方面的需求。这种改变也有可能是其它原因造成的,不一定是出轨,但绝对值得警惕。[9]
- 抑郁症患者经常会封闭自己,对性提不起兴趣。如果这是你唯一注意到的征兆,别急着指责伴侣出轨,先关心关心对方的身心状况。
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小提示
- 如果你认为伴侣出轨了,直接当面对质。坦诚地交流,再决定下一步。
参考
- ↑ https://ideas.ted.com/how-tech-has-transformed-how-we-connect-and-reject-in-the-digital-age/
- ↑ https://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/sexting-cheating
- ↑ https://ideas.ted.com/how-tech-has-transformed-how-we-connect-and-reject-in-the-digital-age/
- ↑ https://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/sexting-cheating
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/emotionally-cheating/
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/emotionally-cheating/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201812/10-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201812/10-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201812/10-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating
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