This article was co-authored by Maya Diamond, MA and by How.com.vn staff writer, Hannah Madden. Maya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach in Berkeley, CA. She has 13 years of experience helping singles stuck in frustrating dating patterns find internal security, heal their past, and create healthy, loving, and lasting partnerships. She received her Master's in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies in 2009.
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Honesty is the building block of a healthy relationship, so it’s no wonder why you’re considering leaving your lying spouse. But making the decision to end your marriage is no easy feat, which is why we’re here to help. In this article, we’ll go over everything from signs that your spouse is lying to things to consider before getting a divorce. For helpful, empathetic advice, keep reading.
Things You Should Know
- Before leaving your spouse, think about their willingness to change and whether or not you can learn to trust them again.
- Weigh the severity of their lies. If your spouse is dishonest about big things, like finances or infidelity, it may be time to go.
- Think about how the lies are impacting your mental health and the mental health of your children, if you have any.
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