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Unfortunately, loving someone doesn’t automatically mean that they’ll be 100% honest with you. As much as it may hurt to be manipulated by a loved one, know that there are plenty of ways to confront the problem head-on and get back on the right track with them—and we're here to help you get started. Read on to learn what you can do if someone you love is deceiving you, and what steps you can take in the future. We'll even discuss how you can know that something's amiss, and how you can assess the severity of the indiscretion. With this guide, you can make the healthiest, most informed decision for you and your relationship.
This article is based on an interview with our dating and relationship coach, Maya Diamond. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Gather the evidence that they’re being dishonest and confront them with it in a calm, reasonable, and responsible way.
- If they won’t admit they’re trying to pull a fast one on you, either cut them off or move on with your life knowing they aren’t worth trusting.
- If you feel like something is off in your relationship and they’re emotionally distant, it’s a big sign they may be hiding something.
Steps
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References
- ↑ https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/when-to-leave-a-relationship/
- ↑ https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/16-things-to-do-when-you-cant-stop-beating-yourself-up-0816184
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a26988344/love-bombing-signs-definition/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201702/why-gaslighters-accuse-you-of-gaslighting
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/psychological-effects-of-false-accusations-in-relationships
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/200909/darling-are-you-suspicious-me
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201803/the-complicated-truth-about-lying-your-partner
- ↑ https://www.mass.gov/info-details/helping-a-friend-in-an-unhealthy-relationship-or-friendship
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