This article was co-authored by Chloe Carmichael, PhD and by How.com.vn staff writer, Dan Hickey. Chloe Carmichael, PhD is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who runs a private practice in New York City. With over a decade of psychological consulting experience, Dr. Chloe specializes in relationship issues, stress management, self esteem, and career coaching. She has also instructed undergraduate courses at Long Island University and has served as adjunct faculty at the City University of New York. Dr. Chloe completed her PhD in Clinical Psychology at Long Island University in Brooklyn, New York and her clinical training at Lenox Hill Hospital and Kings County Hospital. She is accredited by the American Psychological Association and is the author of “Nervous Energy: Harness the Power of Your Anxiety” and “Dr. Chloe's 10 Commandments of Dating.”
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Have you been feeling isolated, confused, or challenged in your relationship? If so, you may be in a strained relationship—an informal term for a couple plagued by problems that deny one or both partners their needs and wants. We spoke to a licensed clinical psychologist and a licensed marriage and family therapist to find out the best ways to improve your communication and heal your relationship long-term. Plus, we’ll dive into what exactly makes a relationship “strained” and how to tell whether you’re in one or simply experiencing normal ups and downs. Read on to learn more.
Things You Should Know
- A relationship becomes strained when one or both partners aren’t getting what they need from each other due to a lack of trust, communication, or other issues.
- To begin healing your relationship, work on communication. Check in with each other regularly and discuss the root cause of your tension and your feelings about it.
- Then, come up with a solution you both agree on and try it for a specified amount of time. Check-in and tweak your plan to suit your changing needs.
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- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/marriage-communication-common-mistakes-and-how-to-fix-them
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