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It feels good to help others, whether you're helping out at home, at work, or at school. And studies show that when you do something nice for someone else it doesn’t just help them—it also gives your life a sense of meaning, which can boost your overall happiness and wellbeing.[1] If you’re eager to become a more helpful person, you can start making a difference in the lives of others with just a few simple steps.
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- Before you offer assistance, think about whether it’s something you can actually do. Do your best to follow through once you’ve committed to help.[18]Thanks
- If you’re having trouble staying motivated to be helpful, plan to yourself afterwards. For example, you could promise yourself a trip to your favorite ice cream place after you mow your parents’ lawn.Thanks
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- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/can_helping_others_help_you_find_meaning_in_life
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/sites/default/files/Handout%20-%20Supporting%20Others.pdf
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/sites/default/files/Handout%20-%20Supporting%20Others.pdf
- ↑ https://web.extension.illinois.edu/toughtimes/help_mom_or_dad.cfm
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/sites/default/files/Handout%20-%20Supporting%20Others.pdf
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2018/01/17/15-easy-ways-to-become-a-more-helpful-person/?sh=b599669421a7
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2018/01/17/15-easy-ways-to-become-a-more-helpful-person/?sh=b599669421a7
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_structure_your_day_to_accomplish_more
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_kindness_spreads_in_a_community
- ↑ https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/Community/Pages/Helping-Teens-Connect-With-Their-Community.aspx
- ↑ https://www.uopeople.edu/blog/helping-the-community/
- ↑ https://www.feedingamerica.org/hunger-blog/donating-food-food-bank-consider-cash-instead-canned-goods
- ↑ https://www.consumerreports.org/charities/best-charities-for-your-donations/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2020/02/its-time-to-stop-giving-unsolicited-advice#Whats-wrong-with-giving-unsolicited-advice?
- ↑ https://www.dhs.state.il.us/page.aspx?item=32276
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbescoachescouncil/2018/01/17/15-easy-ways-to-become-a-more-helpful-person/?sh=b599669421a7
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/sites/default/files/Handout%20-%20Supporting%20Others.pdf
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/sites/default/files/Handout%20-%20Supporting%20Others.pdf
About This Article
Everyone needs a helping hand sometimes, and there are plenty of ways to be helpful. Try taking time out of your weekend to help a friend or family member. You could help your grandparents clean out their garage or help a friend set up for a party. You can help in small ways too, like helping your flatmate clean, helping your mom cook dinner, or carrying someone’s bag for them. Keep in mind that most people won’t ask for help, so try to offer it whenever you can. If you’re not sure how you can help, just ask. Even if someone doesn’t need a hand, it’s likely that they’ll appreciate the gesture. To learn how to help someone through a tough time, read on!
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