Elvina Lui, MFT

19 Tips to Spice Things up in the Bedroom

Expert advice to bring the magic back into your relationshipIf you’ve been with your partner for a while, it’s totally normal for that initial passion to wane over time. Fortunately, rekindling the heat in your relat...

How to

Make a Cheating Boyfriend Feel Bad

Dealing with a cheating boyfriend can be one of the most infuriating things ever. He betrayed your trust and you may be so angry you could scream. But hold off a sec. There may be a better way to get back at him. To help...

How to

Know when Someone Likes You

Knowing whether or not someone likes you can be difficult. If you’re afraid to ask them, there are a few things you can look out for that may be signs the other person is into you.

How to

Tell a Girl That You Love Her

You're in love with her. You want her to know that you love her, but you aren't sure how to tell her. "I love you," is a wonderful thing to say to someone – but these are also three very powerful words. Take a mome...

What Does It Mean if Someone Puts Their Hands in Their Pockets?

Differentiate between confident and submissive body languageCan something as innocuous as putting your hands in your pockets convey something about your confidence or headspace? Believe it or not, it can! Stuffing your...

What to Do When Your Parents Disapprove of Your Relationship

When you're in love with someone, it's normal to want everyone around you to love that person, too—especially the people closest to you. Unfortunately, if it turns out that your parents don't like your partner, it can...

How to

Know if You Are Ready for a Relationship

It can be hard to know if you're prepared and ready for a real and serious relationship. It's even harder if you just broke up with your ex, or are just starting dating. It is important to make sure you truly are ready b...

How to

Date

Dating can be a tricky business for anyone. Whether you’re shy and inexperienced or seasoned and outgoing, there are plenty of ways a pickup line or a first date can fall flat. Don’t let the possibility of failure fr...

How to

Make a Guy Feel Special

The idea that it is a guy's job to make a woman feel special (and not the other way around) is ''very'' out of date. Today, it's normal for both partners to share the affection in a relationship. While every guy is diffe...

How to

Deal with a Cheating Husband Spiritually

If you recently found out that your husband has been unfaithful, you're probably struggling with a lot of intense emotions, from anger and grief to confusion about what to do next. While there are no easy answers for how...

How to

Know if Someone Is Angry with You

Sometimes it’s obvious someone is angry with you: they might shout at you about something you did, or tell you flat-out that you’ve made them mad. But other times, it’s not so clear, and you might be left wondering...

How to

Get Your Partner to Be More Interested in Sex

Whether you are in an intimate relationship already and you want to rekindle your sex life, or you want to take the step to be physically intimate with your partner for the first time, this can be daunting to both of you...

11+ Ways to Make Your Boyfriend Realize Your Importance and Worth

When you first started dating your boyfriend, he probably treated you like royalty. After some time, though, it can start to feel like he doesn’t appreciate you as much as he used to. Maybe he ignores you more than he...

How to

Flirt With a Shy Girl

You are interested in a shy girl and want to flirt with her to test the waters but aren’t sure how to break the ice. You're not sure if she likes you, and it could be that she's too nervous or afraid to make the first ...

8 Signs She Doesn’t Like You (& Why You’re Unpopular with Women)

Decode her behavior & discover what irks her mostSometimes, you get a strong gut feeling: ''It doesn't seem like she likes me...''While the best way to know for sure is to ask a girl directly, there are also tons of beha...

How to

Keep Your Girlfriend Interested in You

You finally have a girlfriend and you think she's awesome—how exciting! But how can you be sure that she'll stay interested in you? Don't stress. With a little help, keeping your girlfriend satisfied is actually super ...

How to

Stop Thinking About Your Ex

Having a relationship end can be a painful experience, particularly when your thoughts continually drift back to your ex. Whether your relationship just ended or you're still struggling to get past the hurt months later,...

How to Break Up with Someone the Right Way

Tips for ending things with honesty and empathy so you can both move on Breaking up with someone is never easy, and it can be just as emotionally exhausting as getting dumped. A little tact and thoughtfulness, however, c...

How to End a Relationship with Someone Who Loves You

End a relationship respectfully with our expert-approved adviceEnding even a casual relationship can be stressful. However, approaching a breakup of a more serious relationship, particularly one involving the “L-word,�...

How to

Text a Shy Person

Some people are naturally talkative, while others prefer solitude and quiet. There’s nothing wrong with being shy, but it can feel like a bit of a challenge if you’re trying to befriend, flirt, or connect with someon...