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You’ve heard about toxic relationships, and the last thing you want to do is hurt your partner. So, what should you say and not say to make them feel loved? We’ve listed the most common toxic phrases a couple can say to one another in this article. If you avoid these phrases and stick to the given alternatives, you’re on the right path to treating your partner right.
This article is based on an interview with our relationship counselor, Jason Polk, owner of Colorado Relationship Recovery. Check out the full interview here.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Recognize a toxic relationship by determining whether or not your partner controls you or makes you feel less about yourself.Thanks
- If you feel threatened by your partner, seek help from someone you trust to help you leave the abusive relationship.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/relationship-help.htm
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201506/20-signs-of-a-controlling-partner
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/gaslighting/
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/gaslighting/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201506/20-signs-of-a-controlling-partner
- ↑ https://youth.gov/youth-topics/teen-dating-violence/characteristics
- ↑ https://time.com/5274206/toxic-relationship-signs-help/
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/relationship-help.htm
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