This article was co-authored by Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC and by How.com.vn staff writer, Madeleine Criglow. Dr. Tara Vossenkemper is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the Founder and Managing Director of The Counseling Hub, LLC, a group counseling practice located in Columbia, Missouri. She is also the Founder of and a Business Consultant with Tara Vossenkemper Consulting, LLC, a consulting service for therapy practice owners. With over nine years of experience, she specializes in using the Gottman Method of relationship therapy with couples on the brink of divorce, who have conflict, or who feel disconnected from one another. Dr. Vossenkemper holds a BA in Psychology from The University of Missouri, Saint Louis, an MA in Counseling from Missouri Baptist University, and a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Missouri, Saint Louis. She has also completed Level 3 training in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy approach and has been formally trained in both the Prepare-Enrich Premarital Couples Counseling approach and the PREP Approach for couples counseling.
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Licensed Professional CounselorLook for fun activities to do together! Pick an activity that you both enjoy, whether that's hiking, watching a movie, cooking, or something else entirely. - QuestionWhat is the sweetest thing to say to your husband?Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPCDr. Tara Vossenkemper is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the Founder and Managing Director of The Counseling Hub, LLC, a group counseling practice located in Columbia, Missouri. She is also the Founder of and a Business Consultant with Tara Vossenkemper Consulting, LLC, a consulting service for therapy practice owners. With over nine years of experience, she specializes in using the Gottman Method of relationship therapy with couples on the brink of divorce, who have conflict, or who feel disconnected from one another. Dr. Vossenkemper holds a BA in Psychology from The University of Missouri, Saint Louis, an MA in Counseling from Missouri Baptist University, and a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Missouri, Saint Louis. She has also completed Level 3 training in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy approach and has been formally trained in both the Prepare-Enrich Premarital Couples Counseling approach and the PREP Approach for couples counseling.
Licensed Professional CounselorAsk him about his day! Invite him to share everything that's going on his world, from his thoughts and feelings to his fears and opinions.
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- ↑ Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC. Licensed Professional Counselor. Expert Interview. 27 October 2021.
- ↑ https://time.com/4763300/marriage-advice-first-year/
- ↑ https://www.cnn.com/2021/04/06/cnn-underscored/fun-games-for-couples/index.html
- ↑ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10902-017-9941-3
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- ↑ https://www.today.com/health/30-easy-not-cheesy-ways-fall-love-your-husband-again-t74681
- ↑ https://www.mic.com/articles/108498/science-has-good-news-for-couples-who-read-together
- ↑ https://www.today.com/health/30-easy-not-cheesy-ways-fall-love-your-husband-again-t74681
- ↑ Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC. Licensed Professional Counselor. Expert Interview. 27 October 2021.
- ↑ https://www.today.com/health/30-easy-not-cheesy-ways-fall-love-your-husband-again-t74681
- ↑ https://www.thecut.com/article/questions-for-couples.html
- ↑ Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC. Licensed Professional Counselor. Expert Interview. 27 October 2021.
- ↑ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/312382860_Partner_phubbing_and_depression_among_married_Chinese_adults_The_roles_of_relationship_satisfaction_and_relationship_length
- ↑ https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?contenttypeid=1&contentid=4580
- ↑ Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC. Licensed Professional Counselor. Expert Interview. 27 October 2021.
- ↑ Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC. Licensed Professional Counselor. Expert Interview. 27 October 2021.
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