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When your boyfriend neglects you, it's the worst! Fortunately, there are a lot of simple ways you can recapture his attention and rekindle the passion in your relationship. Check out the expert tips below to learn how to stop your boyfriend in his tracks and get the attention you deserve.
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Sarah Schewitz, PsyDSarah Schewitz, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist by the California Board of Psychology with over 10 years of experience. She received her Psy.D. from the Florida Institute of Technology in 2011. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology practice helping couples and individuals improve and change their patterns in love and relationships.
Licensed PsychologistFind out if he's doing something else that keeps him too busy to respond. While you may think he's ignoring you, he might be at work and is unable to stop to respond to a message or pay attention. Often, feeling ignored is a perception issue, and it might help to reconsider it from his perspective.
Tips
- Smile. Your smile is your best weapon, and gift.Thanks
- Flirt with him, even though you are already dating, flirting is still fun and cute and he'll love it.Thanks
- Have inside jokes with him. It is something more intimate and fun that you guys can bring up and laugh about to no end.Thanks
Warnings
- Don't become someone else just to capture his attention.Thanks
- Don't flirt with other guys to get his attention.Thanks
References
- ↑ http://www.eioba.com/a/1bc1/10-fast-and-effective-ways-to-get-his-attention
- ↑ http://youqueen.com/love/relationships/10-crazy-ways-to-make-your-boyfriend-want-you-more/
- ↑ http://www.eioba.com/a/1bc1/10-fast-and-effective-ways-to-get-his-attention
- ↑ http://www.eioba.com/a/1bc1/10-fast-and-effective-ways-to-get-his-attention
- ↑ http://youqueen.com/love/relationships/10-crazy-ways-to-make-your-boyfriend-want-you-more/
- ↑ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/02/20/get-your-husbands-attention_n_6716382.html
- ↑ http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/05/15/how-to-communicate-your-needs-in-a-relationship/
- ↑ http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/05/15/how-to-communicate-your-needs-in-a-relationship/
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If you want to get your boyfriend’s attention, be bold and take charge by planning a special date or surprise. For example, you can cook him his favorite dinner or set up an adventurous outing like a camping trip. When you do this, you’re helping to rekindle your romance while also showing him how you want to be treated. As you wait for him to give you more of his attention, take the time to focus on yourself. You can go on a girls’ trip, have a spa date with your mom, or invite your best friend over for a movie night. When you make other plans and assert your independence, he may see that he needs to make more of an effort to spend time with you. For more advice from our Relationship co-author, including how to talk to your boyfriend about how you’d like more attention, keep reading!
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