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What can you do when you feel like a friend, family member, or colleague isn't really paying attention to you? Thankfully, being an assertive and engaging speaker is easier than you might think! With these simple tips, you'll have all the communication skills you need to get your point across. Read on to learn how you can get people to listen to you, no matter the conversation.
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- QuestionHow do I make my family listen to me when I'm really frustrated and need their support?How.com.vn Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerHow.com.vn Staff EditorStaff AnswerLet them know that you're frustrated. Tell them exactly what the problem is using non-accusatory language. You could say, "I've been really frustrated because I'm struggling right now and it feels like my concerns aren't being heard," or something similar that uses an "I" statement. That way, it won't feel like you're directly accusing them of something. Let them know how much their support means to you so that they understand both the issue and what you need from them! - QuestionHow can I be a good leader, or a good role model?How.com.vn Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerHow.com.vn Staff EditorStaff AnswerBe empathetic and a great listener! Speak confidently, clearly, and be direct to grab your audience's attention. People will follow your lead when they feel like you're reliable and know what you're doing. - QuestionHow do you get your family to stop being verbally mean?Community AnswerIf verbal abuse or profanity is an issue, discuss it with your family and suggest family counseling to help communication and to learn new patterns of interacting.
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References
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/effective-communication.htm
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/steps-to-better-communication-today
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2015/04/how-to-refocus-a-meeting-after-someone-interrupts
- ↑ https://ctb.ku.edu/en/table-of-contents/leadership/leadership-ideas/leadership-styles/main
- ↑ https://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_how_to_speak_so_that_people_want_to_listen?language=en&subtitle=en
- ↑ https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/~/media/CCI/Mental%20Health%20Professionals/Interpersonal/Interpersonal%20-%20Information%20Sheets/Interpersonal%20Information%20Sheet%20-%2003%20-%20Assertive%20Communication.pdf
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/effective-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/effective-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/eye_contact_dont_make_these_mistakes
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/steps-to-better-communication-today
- ↑ https://www.standup4humanrights.org/migration/pdf/MigrationToolbox-Step-5.pdf
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2015/05/get-people-to-listen-to-you-when-youre-not-seen-as-an-expert
- ↑ Kirsten Parker, MFA. Mindset & Action Coach. Expert Interview. 22 July 2020.
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