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Extramarital affairs can be extremely painful and damaging to a relationship. But what exactly qualifies as an extramarital affair and why do spouses have them? Read on to learn everything you need to know about extramarital affairs, including different types, possible causes, and warning signs that your spouse could be cheating. We'll even share expert advice from psychologists and therapists about how to handle cheating and heal your relationship after an affair.
Things You Should Know
- An extramarital affair occurs when one spouse breaks the marital vows set by the couple by secretly having a relationship with someone other than their spouse.
- There are several different types of affairs, including physical, emotional, romantic, casual, and accidental.
- A spouse might have an extramarital affair because of relationship or self-dissatisfaction, love or sex addiction, entitlement, or revenge.
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