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There’s no better feeling than having a close bond with your family, friends, or romantic partner, but is it possible to be too close to certain people? If you’ve noticed yourself becoming absorbed in your relationship to the point where you’ve begun to lose your sense of self, you may be in an enmeshed relationship. It’s okay though, because we’re here to support you and help you understand your feelings and experiences. We’ll provide you with specific signs to look out for that might indicate you’re in an enmeshed relationship—and most importantly, what to do if you are.
Things You Should Know
- An enmeshed relationship is one where relationship boundaries become blurred and people begin to lose their sense of independence.
- In familial enmeshed relationships, a parent might place their emotional stress on their child, show favoritism, or guilt their children into staying with them.
- A person in an enmeshed romantic relationship might push aside their needs to satisfy their partner or be constantly anxious about their partner leaving them.
Steps
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