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Would you like justice so you can release yourself from the control of a narcissist? With proper legal counsel and a solid action plan, that's entirely possible. All you need to do is collect evidence, reach out to allies, and speak your truth. Here, we'll share expert-backed advice about how to make sure a judge notices narcissistic abuse and rules in your favor. Read on to destroy a narcissist in court by exposing who they really are.
Steps
Expert Q&A
- QuestionHow can I avoid narcissists in the future?Jay Reid, LPCCJay Reid is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in private practice in San Francisco, CA. He specializes in helping clients who have survived a narcissistic parent or partner. Treatment focuses upon helping clients identify and challenge self-diminishing beliefs as a result of narcissistic abuse. Jay holds a BA in Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and an MS in Clinical Psychology from Penn State University.
Licensed Professional Clinical CounselorYou'll need to challenge the negative beliefs that the narcissist pressed into you. Unfortunately, narcissists break you down and make you totally focused on them. This can make you attracted to other narcissists since you're used to this dynamic. Challenging these thoughts can help you find a healthy relationship. Working with a therapist is the best way to help yourself heal.
Tips
Warnings
- Narcissists often try to suck you back in after you leave them, which is called hoovering. They may be really nice to you to get you to forgive them for what happened in the past. However, they haven't really changed.[12]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.in.gov/courts/iocs/files/center-bb-po-form-po-0102.pdf
- ↑ https://www.justice.gov/usao/justice-101/discovery
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/recovering-narcissist/2019/01/11-manipulation-and-sabotage-tactics-of-narcissists-sociopaths-psychopaths
- ↑ https://www.hg.org/legal-articles/what-is-a-subpoena-34260
- ↑ https://www.utcourts.gov/howto/legalassist/
- ↑ Jay Reid, LPCC. Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor. Expert Interview. 7 August 2020.
- ↑ https://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/memberarticles/counselling-for-narcissistic-abuse
- ↑ https://www.judiciary.uk/you-and-the-judiciary/going-to-court/high-court/the-rolls-building/facilities/
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder.htm
- ↑ https://www.divorcemag.com/articles/how-to-disarm-a-narcissist-and-make-them-a-bit-more-tolerable
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/peaceful-parenting/201912/the-one-way-beat-narcissist
- ↑ Jay Reid, LPCC. Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor. Expert Interview. 7 August 2020.
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