这篇文章的共同创作者是 John Keegan. John Keegan是美国纽约市的一位约会专家和励志演说家。他经营The Awakened Lifestyle,运用他在约会、吸引力和社会动力方面的专业知识帮助人们寻找爱情。他在世界各地教导和举办约会工作坊,包括洛杉矶市、伦敦、里约热内卢和布拉格,而《纽约时报》、《人在纽约》和《男士健康》杂志都曾对他进行过专题报道。
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身为女生的你是否注意到了男朋友的某些细节。你是否感觉他是同性恋,或者感觉他对男生感兴趣。性取向是一个非常复杂并且很敏感的事情。我们对同性恋有着许多错误的刻板印象。而这些刻板印象都不能正确地反应一个人的性取向。这种事情除非他亲口告诉你,否则你是无法下定论的。当然留心一些疑似他喜欢男人的迹象,你能更好地打开这个话题。阅读下文,里面详细介绍了一个同性恋男友可能会有的表现。
步骤
小提示
- 不要靠你对同性恋的刻板印象去判断你男朋友的性取向。不要去看他的声音或者走路姿势像不像同性恋,或者有没有穿华丽、紧身的衣服。也不要去研究他喜欢什么音乐和电视节目,或者有没有洁癖等。这些都不能说明他就是同性恋。很多同性恋都没有以上提到的这些特征。而符合这些情况的,很多也是直男。
- 他是不是同性恋都不是你造成的。你的男朋友是不是同性恋,有没有做不为人知的事情都和你没有关系。你的男朋友会偷偷地去见其他的男人,完全是出于他自己的意愿。他只是为了满足自己的需求,和你无关。
- 要知道,他也可能是双性恋或者泛性恋。
警告
- 为了保障他的社交、情感和身体健康,不要和其他人谈论,甚至公开谈论他的性取向。很可能他现在都不太确定自己的性取向,也可能是为了安全,他才没有公开。强迫他出柜可能会对他的心理健康和人际关系造成巨大的伤害。
参考
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201412/is-your-man-gay-straight-or-bisexual
- ↑ https://www.healthyplace.com/gender/gay/is-my-husband-gay-signs-of-a-gay-husband
- ↑ https://www.healthyplace.com/gender/gay/is-my-husband-gay-signs-of-a-gay-husband
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201412/is-your-man-gay-straight-or-bisexual
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201412/is-your-man-gay-straight-or-bisexual
- ↑ https://www.cosmo.ph/relationships/is-your-boyfriend-gay
- ↑ https://www.bonobology.com/signs-husband-gay/
- ↑ https://www.cosmo.ph/relationships/is-your-boyfriend-gay
- ↑ https://www.bonobology.com/signs-husband-gay/
- ↑ https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/closet-psychological-issues-being-and-coming-out
- ↑ https://www.healthyplace.com/gender/gay/is-my-husband-gay-signs-of-a-gay-husband
- ↑ https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2016/06/16/growing-up-gay-in-an-anti-gay-home-can-make-you-depressed-and-violent/
- ↑ https://www.bonobology.com/signs-husband-gay/
- ↑ https://www.healthyplace.com/gender/gay/is-my-husband-gay-signs-of-a-gay-husband
- ↑ https://www.healthyplace.com/gender/gay/is-my-husband-gay-signs-of-a-gay-husband
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201412/is-your-man-gay-straight-or-bisexual
- ↑ https://www.pride.com/comingout/2016/5/19/3-signs-your-friend-gay-and-wants-talk-about-it
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