This article was co-authored by Jay Reid, LPCC and by How.com.vn staff writer, Christopher M. Osborne, PhD. Jay Reid is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in private practice in San Francisco, CA. He specializes in helping clients who have survived a narcissistic parent or partner. Treatment focuses upon helping clients identify and challenge self-diminishing beliefs as a result of narcissistic abuse. Jay holds a BA in Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and an MS in Clinical Psychology from Penn State University.
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It’s awful to even have to wonder if your girlfriend has experienced sexual abuse, but it’s a reality you may have to face. We’ve listed potential signs of abuse below, and also included advice on what you can say and do if your girlfriend reveals that she has been abused. You can’t change what has happened, but you can strive to be the kind of supportive person your girlfriend needs as a survivor of sexual abuse.
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Expert Q&A
- QuestionHow can I be supportive of a sexual abuse survivor?Jay Reid, LPCCJay Reid is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in private practice in San Francisco, CA. He specializes in helping clients who have survived a narcissistic parent or partner. Treatment focuses upon helping clients identify and challenge self-diminishing beliefs as a result of narcissistic abuse. Jay holds a BA in Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and an MS in Clinical Psychology from Penn State University.
Licensed Professional Clinical CounselorMost importantly, respect their boundaries. Sexual abuse is a horrible betrayal of boundaries, so it's important to give them space and respect. Additionally, be patient with their recovery and listen when they need to talk.
Tips
- Sadly, sexual abuse is not all that uncommon. Around 20% of U.S. females experience sexual abuse during their lifetimes, and 12% experience sexual abuse between grades 9 and 12.[20]Thanks
References
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- ↑ Jay Reid, LPCC. Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor. Expert Interview. 7 August 2020.
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/27/smarter-living/sexual-abuse-assault-support-mental-health.html
- ↑ https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/committee-opinion/articles/2011/08/adult-manifestations-of-childhood-sexual-abuse
- ↑ Jay Reid, LPCC. Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor. Expert Interview. 7 August 2020.
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- ↑ https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/committee-opinion/articles/2011/08/adult-manifestations-of-childhood-sexual-abuse
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