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From ignored texts to frequent nights out with his friends, it can be a disorienting, confusing, and hurtful experience when your partner starts to pull away. How can you get a better read on these not-so-subtle signals for space, though—and, most importantly, what can you do about them? We'll walk you through some key signs that your partner is looking for some alone time, along with how you can respond. We'll even take a deep dive into why his feelings might be changing and what that means for your relationship, so you can take an informed step forward in your partnership.
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- He might want you to leave him alone if he ignores your texts or he excludes you from activities.
- He might also be looking for space if your sex life slows down or if he shows you less affection than he used to.
- If you aren’t sure what he wants, have an honest conversation about his feelings and the relationship to see where you stand.
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