This article was co-authored by Lynda Jean and by How.com.vn staff writer, Kira Jan. Lynda Jean is an Image Consultant and the Owner of Lynda Jean Image Consulting. With over 15 years of experience, Lynda specializes in color and body/style analysis, wardrobe audits, personal shopping, social and professional etiquette, and personal and business branding. She works with clients to enhance their image, self-esteem, behavior, and communication to facilitate their social and career goals. Lynda holds Bachelor degrees in Sociology and Social Work, a Master’s degree in Clinical Social Work, and a Certified Image Consultant (CIC) certification. She studied Image Consulting at the International Image Institute and the International Academy of Fashion and Technology in Toronto, Canada. Lynda has taught Image Consulting courses at George Brown College in Toronto, Canada. She is the co-author of the book, “Business Success With Ease,” where she shares her knowledge about, ‘The Power of Professional Etiquette.’
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How do you respond to the text message that just left you beaming and blushing? Or in a work context, how do you show humility and gratitude when you get a compliment from your boss? Whether you want to seem professional, flirty, funny, or whether you’re just not sure what to say, we’ve got you covered. Go beyond just “liking” the text and up your texting game with one of these responses.
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- QuestionHow do you respond to a backhanded compliment?Lynda JeanLynda Jean is an Image Consultant and the Owner of Lynda Jean Image Consulting. With over 15 years of experience, Lynda specializes in color and body/style analysis, wardrobe audits, personal shopping, social and professional etiquette, and personal and business branding. She works with clients to enhance their image, self-esteem, behavior, and communication to facilitate their social and career goals. Lynda holds Bachelor degrees in Sociology and Social Work, a Master’s degree in Clinical Social Work, and a Certified Image Consultant (CIC) certification. She studied Image Consulting at the International Image Institute and the International Academy of Fashion and Technology in Toronto, Canada. Lynda has taught Image Consulting courses at George Brown College in Toronto, Canada. She is the co-author of the book, “Business Success With Ease,” where she shares her knowledge about, ‘The Power of Professional Etiquette.’
Certified Image ConsultantWhen someone pays you a backhanded compliment, instead of responding negatively respond with kindness and say, thank you so much or thank you, you made my day.
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- ↑ Lynda Jean. Certified Image Consultant. Expert Interview. 17 November 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201911/how-do-you-respond-compliment-why-it-matters
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2013/12/what-to-do-when-praise-makes-you-uncomfortable
- ↑ Lynda Jean. Certified Image Consultant. Expert Interview. 17 November 2020.
- ↑ https://www.howcommunicationworks.com/blog/2020/12/30/how-to-accept-compliments-and-why-its-so-hard
- ↑ https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/234668
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2019/10/how-to-give-and-receive-compliments-at-work
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFq8X0DHcik&t=67s
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1vskiVDwl4&t=366s
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201607/5-ways-answer-backhanded-compliment
- ↑ Lynda Jean. Certified Image Consultant. Expert Interview. 17 November 2020.
- ↑ https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/when-to-tell-someone-you-just-met-that-you-have-a-significant-other
- ↑ https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/creepy-slide-into-dms-advice
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