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Your conversations are amazing, and she seems so into you—but suddenly, your crush stops responding out of nowhere. Like, complete radio silence. What do you do now? The truth is, there are tons of reasons that she may have gone quiet, but one thing is for sure: a great follow-up text can totally revitalize her interest in you. We're here to walk you through all of the very best texts to recapture her interest and finally get a response from your crush.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Before you give up, try calling her! Calls can be refreshing, like a blank slate, and some people are just genuinely bad at remembering to respond to texts. Throw in the promise of a funny story to encourage her to reach back out: “Hello hello! Alex calling. Give me a call, I have something hilarious to tell you.”Thanks
- Wait a few days or a week before texting her, and pick something that is actually eventful or a commonality to talk about, instead of relying on a generic "how are you doing?" message.Thanks
- Another good idea is to simply pick an activity and ask her if she wants to do it with you!Thanks
Warnings
- If she eventually doesn't reply after you text her, she may have blocked you, or she may already have a romantic partner. (If she wasn't dating when you first contacted her, she could have started dating someone between then and when you contacted her.)Thanks
- Never text things such as "You never reply to me," "You always leave me on read," or any other insulting phrases. That isn't very kind, and could result in her blocking and reporting you.Thanks
- Don't be insistent. She might take that as harassment, which is illegal and could result in criminal charges in some countries.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/202108/so-you-want-impress-her-make-her-laugh
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/nov03/compassion
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/news/a40833/how-to-someone-you-like-text-back/
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/boundaries-expectations/
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