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This article was co-authored by Brian Bourquin, DVM and by How.com.vn staff writer, Eric McClure. Brian Bourquin, better known as “Dr. B” to his clients, is a Veterinarian and the Owner of Boston Veterinary Clinic, a pet health care and veterinary clinic with three locations, South End/Bay Village, the Seaport, and Brookline, Massachusetts. Boston Veterinary Clinic specializes in primary veterinary care, including wellness and preventative care, sick and emergency care, soft-tissue surgery, dentistry. The clinic also provides specialty services in behavior, nutrition, and alternative pain management therapies using acupuncture, and therapeutic laser treatments. Boston Veterinary Clinic is an AAHA (American Animal Hospital Association) accredited hospital and Boston’s first Fear Free Certified Clinic. Brian has over 19 years of veterinary experience and earned his Doctor of Veterinary Medicine from Cornell University.
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Picking up a cat may sound easy, but there's actually a proper way to do it so the cat is comfortable and doesn't get injured. Make sure the cat feels safe and comfortable in your presence before you attempt to pick it up. Some cats need a more “delicate” approach than others, especially cats that are frightened of humans or ones with medical conditions like arthritis. Once you've established a relationship with the cat, then it's time to pick it up while supporting its body correctly.
Things You Should Know
- Approach the cat slowly. Only attempt to pick up a cat if they’re obviously at ease and comfortable being handled.
- Use both hands to gently lift the cat from its chest and hindquarters. Brace the cat against your chest to keep them stable.
- Put the cat down slowly if they seem like they want to be put down and never pick a cat up by the scruff of their neck.
Steps
Approach the cat slowly. If you want to pick up a cat, then you should first approach it in a way that lets it know you're coming. This can mean talking to it softly, letting it see you, or just making your presence known in some way.[1]- If you pick up your cat from behind without letting it know you're coming, it's likely to get scared and to feel panicked and unsafe.
- Some experts say it's best to approach your cat from the left or right side because coming at your cat head-on may seem like too much of a threat.[2]
- Never attempt to pick up cats you find on the street without carefully assessing the cat and its behavior. It can be feral and potentially dangerous. It is best to only try to pick a cat up if you have experience with it.
Pet the cat once they approach you to put them at ease. It can take time for cats to warm up to you, even cats that you own. Once the cat knows you're approaching, be friendly and loving with the cat so it gets ready to be held by you. Most cats introduce themselves to other cats by nuzzling their faces, so do the same. Focus on gently petting the cat's cheeks, forehead, the area behind their ears, or even under their chins.[3]- This gentle petting can help your cat feel safe and loved and ready to be picked up.
- If your cat is feeling a little bit wound up, this can also help calm him or her down. It may take a bit of time to make your cat feel at ease.
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Monitor the cat’s body language to see if they want to be picked up. Most cats will be able to give you a definite sign that they don't want to be picked up.[4] Though you can slowly calm down and earn the trust of domestic cats by petting their heads, you shouldn't try to pick up a cat who is either irritated or just not in the mood to be picked up. If the cat tries to run away from you, bites or scratches you, or just starts swatting at you, then it may be time to try to pick up the cat later.[5]- It is especially important to teach children who want to pick up a cat these warning signs. You want them to only pick up a cat who is feeling calm and relaxed and who trusts them. You don't want a child to end up getting scratched by a cat who doesn't want to be held.
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Place one hand under the cat's body, behind its front legs. Gently move your hand under the cat's body, just below its front legs, so you have the support you need when you begin to pick up the cat. The cat may resist this or not like it right away, so you should move along and use that second hand soon afterwards.[6]- It doesn't really matter whether you use your dominant hand to support the cat below its front legs or under its hindquarters; it depends on whatever makes you feel more comfortable.
- Some people actually tuck the front legs together and place the hand under the two legs instead of below them.
Lift the cat gently and slowly. Now that you're holding the cat with both hands, just gently lift the cat up, towards your chest. Try to make contact with the rest of your body as early as you can when you lift it up. This can help the cat feel more secure early in the process. If the cat is too heavy to lift up from the ground, you may be better off picking it up from a table or an elevated platform.[9]
Hold the cat against your chest. Once you've picked up the cat while supporting it with both hands, you can hold it against your chest, so most of its body is touching your body.[10] The back or side of the cat's head can rest against your chest, too.- In general, the cat's posture should be fairly straight instead of having the cat sag against your chest, with its head and neck craned downward. This is uncomfortable for the cat and may cause it to struggle and scratch you.
- You should always pick up a cat with its head above its body. Never pick up a cat upside down!
- Of course, some cats like to be held differently, especially if it's your cat and it's more comfortable around you. Some are perfectly fine being cradled like babies while others even like placing their hind legs on your shoulders.
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Lower the cat if they try to leave or start fussing. Once the cat starts shifting around, moving, or even meowing or trying to escape your grasp, it's time to set the cat down. You don't want to hold the cat against its will, as this will make the cat increasingly uncomfortable and it will also feel threatened.- Some cats don't like to be held for all that long, so if you sense that the cat may be less than pleased in your arms, it's time to let it go.
Set the cat down slowly to avoid startling it. Don't just throw down the cat the second you feel the little guy is uncomfortable; this may lead the cat to lose its balance or to land awkwardly. Instead, lower the cat down until all four of its paws are on the ground before you comfortably release it.[11]- Of course, some cats will just jump right out of your grasp, so you can be prepared for that, too.
Avoid picking the cat up by the scruff of their neck. Though mother cats carry their kittens by the scruff, you should not try to scruff a cat, especially after it is three months old or so.[12] At that point, the cat will grow too big, and scruffing it can really hurt the cat and cause muscle damage, as the cat will be too big to be adequately supported by the scruff.[13]- Though you or a vet may need to scruff the cat to get it to take medication or trim its nails they never hold the cat off the examination table by the scruff.
Supervise children while they’re picking up a cat. Kids love to pick up cats, but if they want to do this, you should instruct them through every step of the process. Most importantly, make sure the child is big enough to comfortably pick the cat up. If the child is too small, then he or she may be better off holding the cat while sitting.- Once the child picks up the cat, make sure to keep an eye on them so you can tell the child when the cat wants to be let go. This will help to keep both the child and the cat from being injured.
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- QuestionHow do you tell your cat you love them?
Melissa Nelson, DVM, PhDDr. Nelson is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion and Large Animal Medicine in Minnesota, where she has over 18 years of experience as a veterinarian in a rural clinic. She received her Doctor of Veterinary Medicine from the University of Minnesota in 1998.
VeterinarianYou can show your cat you love them taking good care of them, petting them and playing with them. - QuestionCan you pick up a pregnant cat?Melissa Nelson, DVM, PhDDr. Nelson is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion and Large Animal Medicine in Minnesota, where she has over 18 years of experience as a veterinarian in a rural clinic. She received her Doctor of Veterinary Medicine from the University of Minnesota in 1998.
VeterinarianYes you can pick up a pregnant cat, just like you would pick up a non-pregnant cat - carefully. - QuestionCan I pick my cat up by the scruff?Melissa Nelson, DVM, PhDDr. Nelson is a Veterinarian who specializes in Companion and Large Animal Medicine in Minnesota, where she has over 18 years of experience as a veterinarian in a rural clinic. She received her Doctor of Veterinary Medicine from the University of Minnesota in 1998.
VeterinarianNo do not pick up a cat by the scruff. They can be held by the scruff while they are sitting on a flat surface to keep them under control for short medical procedures.
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- Make sure you put your hand right behind their front legs.Thanks
- Don't pick up a cat if it is likely to scratch or bite. However, if it is necessary to pick the cat up ( at the vet, for example) wear a long sleeved shirt so that the scratching or biting will not hurt your skin or cut your skin. If your cat bites or scratches really badly, you may even want to consider wearing gloves to keep your hands from getting scratched.Thanks
- Some cats simply do not like being picked up. Don't force it. In that case, pick up the cat only when it's necessary, like for taking it to the veterinarian, and perhaps once a week, just so he/she doesn't associate being picked up with the veterinarian.Thanks
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Warnings
- Do not hold the cat on their back in a baby position unless you know the cat doesn’t mind this position. This makes the cat feel insecure and trapped, and it might panic and end up scratching you. Always hold the cat in an upright position against your body for a more secure hold.Thanks
- Always remember the dangers of being bitten and scratched.Thanks
- If you are scratched, wash it out with soap and water, and use a topical antibiotic. If you receive a cat bite do the same and consult your physician as cat bites can quickly lead to serious infections.Thanks
- Don't pick up a cat without getting to know it a bit first, and never pick up a stray or wild cat.Thanks
- Picking up a cat by the scruff is highly discouraged. The cat can be seriously injured if not picked up by the scruff correctly, and so can you, for this position gives the cat much space to turn around and bite/scratch you.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.maddiesfund.org/helping-a-shy-or-fearful-cat-adjust-to-your-home.htm
- ↑ https://www.humanerescuealliance.org/blog/posts/tips-for-a-successful-meet-and-greet-with-a-cat
- ↑ https://www.maddiesfund.org/helping-a-shy-or-fearful-cat-adjust-to-your-home.htm
- ↑ Brian Bourquin, DVM. Veterinarian. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://www.humanesociety.org/resources/understanding-feline-language
- ↑ https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/cat-care/general-cat-care
- ↑ Brian Bourquin, DVM. Veterinarian. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://www.vetstreet.com/our-pet-experts/fear-free-tips-for-picking-up-and-holding-a-cat
- ↑ https://www.vetstreet.com/our-pet-experts/fear-free-tips-for-picking-up-and-holding-a-cat
- ↑ Brian Bourquin, DVM. Veterinarian. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://www.vetstreet.com/our-pet-experts/fear-free-tips-for-picking-up-and-holding-a-cat
- ↑ Brian Bourquin, DVM. Veterinarian. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://now.tufts.edu/2019/08/14/scruffing-best-way-handle-upset-cat
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This article was co-authored by Brian Bourquin, DVM and by How.com.vn staff writer, Eric McClure. Brian Bourquin, better known as “Dr. B” to his clients, is a Veterinarian and the Owner of Boston Veterinary Clinic, a pet health care and veterinary clinic with three locations, South End/Bay Village, the Seaport, and Brookline, Massachusetts. Boston Veterinary Clinic specializes in primary veterinary care, including wellness and preventative care, sick and emergency care, soft-tissue surgery, dentistry. The clinic also provides specialty services in behavior, nutrition, and alternative pain management therapies using acupuncture, and therapeutic laser treatments. Boston Veterinary Clinic is an AAHA (American Animal Hospital Association) accredited hospital and Boston’s first Fear Free Certified Clinic. Brian has over 19 years of veterinary experience and earned his Doctor of Veterinary Medicine from Cornell University. This article has been viewed 601,041 times.
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To pick up a cat, start by kneeling or sitting down next to the cat and petting its cheeks, forehead, or the area behind its ears. Once the cat is relaxed, place 1 hand behind the front legs, and the other hand under its back legs and bottom. Then, gently lift up the cat and hold it against your chest so that most of its body is touching you. Additionally, keep 1 hand or arm wrapped around its bottom area to make the cat feel secure and comfortable. For more advice from our Veterinary reviewer, including how to put down your cat once it no longer wants to be held, keep reading.
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