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Finally, you find a guy that you like. All you want him to do is kiss you, but you don’t know if he wants to or how to make it want to. There are a few easy tricks to make him want to kiss you. You need to put in some prep-work and then hint at him the right way, and he’ll have no choice but to kiss you.
Steps
1Make him work for it. You’ve met an incredibly gorgeous guy; the last thing you want to do is over-inflate his ego right away. Don’t shower him with attention. Instead, show him that you refuse to be wowed easily. He’s probably used to the attention, so he’ll like that you seem slightly out of reach for him.[1] Give him space so that he thinks it was him that made the choice to see you again.- Don’t gush over him. If he mentions doing something that sounds amazing, you can comment on it but don’t talk about how amazing it must’ve been for hours.
2Let him know you’re happy that you know him. Leave it at that. While you guys are talking, just mention that you think he’s a cool guy and you’re happy that he’s in your life. Once again, don’t gush. All you’re doing is securing your spot in his mind. If you aren’t going to run into him, you can mention it during a texting conversation.Advertisement
3Set a casual time to hang out. Make sure he’s going to a party, or see if he wants to meet up after the home game. You don’t need to specify a time and place that it will be only you and him. You can meet him in a group setting and pull him aside during it.
4Keep lip gloss on. When you do run into him, you want your lips to be something that he notices. This is easily done by wearing lip gloss and occasionally licking your lips.
1Put yourself out there. It doesn’t matter how sexy your outfit is, or how good your makeup looks, you need to make sure you don’t second guess yourself. Guys like it when you’re comfortable in your own skin. If you’re not confident about it, a guy can tell in a matter of minutes and be turned off.[2]
Make him focus on you. A great way to get noticed is by suggesting the two of you get away. Tell him you want to take him outside to show him something, or that you have pictures in you room for him to see. This will create time alone where he focuses on only you.- Have your lip gloss on for this time alone.
Be playful. Guys steer clear of girls who seem uptight. A playful attitude will show him that you have a sense of humor, and a guy is more likely to kiss a girl with a sense of humor. Laugh at him and lean in to touch his shoulder as you do.[3] This will show him that you’re both playful and interested in him.- Lean into him while he’s talking. Simply sit next to him and lean your shoulders toward him to show him that you’re drawn to him.[4]
Compliment him. Use body and appearance-specific compliments to show him that you’re interested and that you notice him.[5]- ”You look so handsome.”
- ”You weren’t kidding when you said you were working out. Look at you!”
Pull him into the right setting. When you take him away from the crowds and take him to a private place to talk, it should set the mood. Not only does this keep his attention on you, but it makes him consider kissing you. It doesn’t have to be overly romantic—just somewhere that the two of you will be comfortable.
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- Use shiny lip gloss. Glossy lips and cleavage will inspire a guy to cross a crowded room.[6]Thanks
- Be prepared to wait. He might not be comfortable enough yet to kiss you. That doesn’t mean that he won’t in the future.Thanks
Warnings
- If you pressure him, he will feel uncomfortable. If he doesn’t lean in for a kiss, wait for another day. This doesn’t mean that it won’t happen, just that it wasn’t the right time. Keep repeating these steps and soon you’ll get that kiss.Thanks
References
- ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a3179/how-to-attract-a-guy-0210/
- ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a3179/how-to-attract-a-guy-0210/
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach & Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 4 March 2020.
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach & Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 4 March 2020.
- ↑ https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/6-kinds-of-compliments-men-would-love-to-hear-more-often-jgc/
- ↑ http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a3179/how-to-attract-a-guy-0210/
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To make a guy want to kiss you, try flirting with him. Look for opportunities to hang out with him one-on-one in a relaxed setting so you can get to know him and give him your full attention. Lean in close and break the touch barrier if he seems comfortable with it. For instance, you might lightly touch his arm or shoulder while you talk to him. Remember to make lots of eye contact, smile, and use open, confident body language. Another great way to flirt is to joke around with him or give him a sincere compliment. Before hanging out with him, brush your teeth, swish a little mouthwash, or eat a mint to freshen your breath. If you want, put on some lip balm or lip gloss to make your lips soft and kissable. When you feel like the moment is right, take him aside and let him know you’d like him to kiss you. You can even say something like, “I’d love it if you kissed me right now.” For tips on how to compliment a guy you want to kiss, keep reading!
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