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So you've got plans you want to get out of. Whether you were plotting to cancel seconds after you agreed or had the best intentions to go until, well, you didn't - we've all been there. If you're having trouble figuring out what to say, we've got a list of totally believable excuses that'll keep you out of trouble and let you sit out on your friend's cousin's metal band without repercussions.
Things You Should Know
- Don't over-explain. The more you weave an elaborate excuse, the less believable it's likely to become, not to mention the more challenging it'll be to remember when someone asks you about it in the future.
- Telling the truth can be difficult, but honesty is usually the best policy. Everyone can relate to wanting to cancel plans, so sometimes, no excuse is excuse enough.
- If you're breaking off a get-together with your friends or family, they'll likely understand where you're coming from and forgive you, so try not to worry too much.
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- ↑ https://www.nevertherightword.com/25-fantastic-excuses-to-get-out-of-an-event/
- ↑ https://www.careeraddict.com/22-excuses-to-get-out-of-work-today
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