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There’s no getting around it: being cheated on sucks. It really, really does. Whether you just found out your boyfriend has been unfaithful or if he’s broken his promise to never do it again, it can ruin your relationship. For your own well-being, you may want to break up with him so you can heal and move on. That’s totally understandable, and the good news is, with the right mindset and approach, you can do it much more easily than you may realize. To help you out, we’ve put together a list of tips and strategies you can use to end your relationship with your cheating boyfriend as quickly and painlessly as possible.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- If it helps, you can write out some of the things you want to say to your boyfriend when you confront him so you can remember them if you start getting upset.Thanks
- Reach out to some of your close friends and family if you need some emotional support after your breakup.Thanks
Warnings
- If your boyfriend is physically or emotionally abusive, don’t wait to end things. If you feel unsafe, you may want to consider getting a restraining order or a protective order.[15]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.today.com/health/caught-him-cheating-heres-how-move-after-bad-breakup-1D80244657
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hear-you/201805/fourteen-ways-break-better
- ↑ https://www.insider.com/confronting-someone-who-cheated-2018-8#try-to-listen-to-what-your-partner-has-to-say-about-why-they-cheated-5
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hear-you/201805/fourteen-ways-break-better
- ↑ https://www.today.com/health/caught-him-cheating-heres-how-move-after-bad-breakup-1D80244657
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/break-up.html
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://www.insider.com/confronting-someone-who-cheated-2018-8#try-to-listen-to-what-your-partner-has-to-say-about-why-they-cheated-5
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/getting-out-of-an-abusive-relationship.htm
- ↑ https://www.today.com/health/caught-him-cheating-heres-how-move-after-bad-breakup-1D80244657
- ↑ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/relationships/relationships-101/cheating-and-breakups
- ↑ https://au.reachout.com/articles/how-to-cope-with-being-cheated-on
- ↑ https://www.realsimple.com/work-life/family/relationships/how-to-move-on-after-breakup
- ↑ https://au.reachout.com/articles/how-to-cope-with-being-cheated-on
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/getting-out-of-an-abusive-relationship.htm
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