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Asking deep, thoughtful questions is a great way to get to know someone better and strengthen your relationship. If you’re hoping to get an awesome convo going with a girl (or anyone, really) look no further. We’ve come up with a list of thought-provoking, interesting, romantic, fun, and creative questions to ask, whether you’re talking to a crush, significant other, or friend, so keep reading!
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Tips
- Summarize and repeat what they’ve said back to them, and ask thoughtful follow-up questions to show that you’re interested in learning more about them and deepening the conversation.[4]Thanks
- Practice active listening while the person you’re talking to answers your question. This shows that you’re engaged and that you care deeply about what they’re saying.Thanks
- Face them and make eye contact while they’re talking. Nod your head and react with appropriate facial expressions to show that you’re paying attention.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-teen-doctor/201701/15-ways-become-closer-others
- ↑ https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_for_increasing_closeness
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/creative-curious-questions-to-deepen-your-connection-with-your-partner#why-deep-questions
- ↑ https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/active_listening
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