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Sometimes time can get away from you. You start thinking about someone and realize that even though you used to be so close, you haven't talked to them in years. The truth is it's totally natural to drift apart from people as you move through life. If you miss someone and want to rekindle your relationship with them, don't let your nerves get in the way. Sure, it might be a little awkward at first, but chances are they'll at least be flattered that you reached out to them. And who knows? It might spark a renewed friendship that lasts a lifetime.
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Expert Q&A
- QuestionWhat do I say to someone I haven't talked to in a long time?Lynda JeanLynda Jean is an Image Consultant and the Owner of Lynda Jean Image Consulting. With over 15 years of experience, Lynda specializes in color and body/style analysis, wardrobe audits, personal shopping, social and professional etiquette, and personal and business branding. She works with clients to enhance their image, self-esteem, behavior, and communication to facilitate their social and career goals. Lynda holds Bachelor degrees in Sociology and Social Work, a Master’s degree in Clinical Social Work, and a Certified Image Consultant (CIC) certification. She studied Image Consulting at the International Image Institute and the International Academy of Fashion and Technology in Toronto, Canada. Lynda has taught Image Consulting courses at George Brown College in Toronto, Canada. She is the co-author of the book, “Business Success With Ease,” where she shares her knowledge about, ‘The Power of Professional Etiquette.’
Communication ConsultantThat depends on why you stopped communicating, but in general, I would recommend you let them know you've been thinking about them. Then, ask them how they're doing. - QuestionIs it okay to get back to the person even if he hurts me?Community AnswerYes, you can, but recognize that he may try to hurt you again.
- QuestionI'm a teenager and I lived in Colorado but now I'm in Texas and I can't get my friend to answer me. I am getting worried about her because she has mean mom and dad, what can I do?Community AnswerTry to connect with her online or else you could try to talk with your common friend to ask about her.
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References
- ↑ https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/best-way-reach-out-old-friend-advice/
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2018/08/how-to-email-someone-you-havent-talked-to-in-forever
- ↑ https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/best-way-reach-out-old-friend-advice/
- ↑ https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210623-why-its-ok-to-let-friendships-fade-out
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2018/08/how-to-email-someone-you-havent-talked-to-in-forever
- ↑ https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20210623-why-its-ok-to-let-friendships-fade-out
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2018/08/how-to-email-someone-you-havent-talked-to-in-forever
- ↑ Lynda Jean. Certified Image Consultant. Expert Interview. 17 November 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/202005/reaching-out-old-flames-and-former-friends
- ↑ https://www.fatherly.com/love-money/best-way-reach-out-old-friend-advice/
- ↑ Lynda Jean. Certified Image Consultant. Expert Interview. 17 November 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/202005/reaching-out-old-flames-and-former-friends
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/202005/reaching-out-old-flames-and-former-friends
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To call someone you haven’t talked to in a long time, start by calling at a time they’re likely to be free, such as between 6 and 9 pm on a weekday. Then, tell them who you are and remind them where they know you from, saying something like “Hi, Greg! It’s Nicole from Dartmouth.” After that, explain what made you pick up the phone, using words such as “I reread that book you gave me, and it made me think of you.” You may also want to offer an apology for being out of touch, like “I’m sorry I didn’t keep in touch after the wedding.” For tips on how to leave a message for someone you haven’t talked to in a while, scroll down!
Reader Success Stories
- "I haven't talked to my friend in ages (we were super close at the time), so it was super cool. I'm gonna fight my social anxiety and speak to her again. Very scared and awkward, but 10/10, will do it again."..." more
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