This article was co-authored by Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT. Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
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Romance is an important part of any relationship. If you feel like you just don't know how to romance your partner, there are some easy steps you can follow to become a more romantic man. While movies might make you think that you have to constantly shower your partner with lavish gifts, in real life, romance is more about building meaningful connections. We've got plenty of ways you can connect with your partner, like making loving gestures, announcing your feelings, and planning the perfect date. Here are 14 tips to get you started.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed relationship therapist, Alysha Jeney, owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the co-founder of The Modern Love Box. Check out the full interview here.
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- QuestionWhat's the most romantic thing a man can do?Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFTAlysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
Licensed Relationship TherapistTry being spontaneous and anticipate your partner's needs! Just surprising your partner with a fun note like "I made you lunch today" or "I'm going to give you a massage when you get home from work" can be very thoughtful and romantic. - QuestionHow can I help my girlfriend?Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFTAlysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
Licensed Relationship TherapistTry to take a few things off her plate without asking. You might do a load of laundry for her or make her dinner—even small surprises help remind her that you care. - QuestionWhat romantic things can I do for my girlfriend?Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFTAlysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post.
Licensed Relationship TherapistParticipate in an activity that she really likes, even if it isn't your thing. For instance, if she's a fan of yoga, you could go with her to her next yoga session.
Tips
- Remember, don't get your romance advice from movies. These aren't real.Thanks
Warnings
- Always respect your partner's boundaries, or the boundaries of anyone you want to date. Don't call or text constantly, or expect them to spend every moment with you. This will drive them away.Thanks
- If someone rejects your advances, take it in stride and move on. Don't pursue them or try to change their mind.Thanks
References
- ↑ Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT. Licensed Relationship Therapist. Expert Interview. 11 August 2021.
- ↑ Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT. Licensed Relationship Therapist. Expert Interview. 11 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/how-to-be-romantic.html
- ↑ Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT. Licensed Relationship Therapist. Expert Interview. 11 August 2021.
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- ↑ https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/how-to-be-romantic.html
- ↑ Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT. Licensed Relationship Therapist. Expert Interview. 11 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/how-to-be-romantic.html
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a31786/100-date-ideas/
- ↑ https://www.businessinsider.com/28-perfect-date-ideas-that-arent-dinner-and-a-movie-2018-4
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