Klare Heston, LCSW

How to

Ask Someone if They Want to Have Sex

Whether you’re seeing someone casually or you’ve been dating for a while, you might be wondering how to ask them to have sex with you. Asking for sexual consent before making a move is super important, but it can fee...

How to

Talk to Anyone

Being able to talk to anyone is an excellent skill to have. It can lead you to make new friends or discover a romantic partner. It may even lead to new career or business opportunities. Humans are social creatures by nat...

Is Your Partner Cheating on You? Here’s How to Get Them to Confess

Use these tips to figure out if your significant other is having an affair It can be hard to get your partner to admit they are cheating. Listen carefully to what they have to say and look for inconsistencies in their ...

The Best Ways to Make People Laugh

A list of ideas to make your mom, bestie, or neighbor laugh hystericallyThey say laughter is the best medicine, so how can you give it out? Making someone laugh may seem like a feat, but it’s way easier than you may th...

12 Tips for Saving Your Relationship After You’ve Had an Affair

Learn how to rebuild trust and piece your relationship back together after infidelityCheating is hard on a relationship. If you've been unfaithful to your partner, it can devastate them emotionally and break any trust th...

How to

Know if Your Boyfriend Is Using You

It’s not a fun feeling to experience. You think you’ve found a great guy, and you’re excited to claim him as your boyfriend. However, something just feels ''off''. Whether it’s a gnawing feeling in your gut, red ...

How to Decrease Your Libido: From Dietary Changes to Medications

An in-depth look at causes, treatments, and interventions for a high libidoIf you always seem to be turned on so strongly that it’s difficult to keep your head straight, you may be interested in lowering your sex driv...

How to

Stop Loving Someone

Though love can be wonderful, sometimes it can hurt you more than it makes you happy. Maybe you just went through a bad breakup or perhaps you’re in love with someone who doesn’t love you back. These experiences ca...

How to

Deal with a Partner Who Thinks You Are Always Wrong

If you always feel like your partner thinks you're wrong, it can put a strain on your relationship. The best tactic is to have a discussion with your partner about how it makes you feel. However, if your partner actually...

How to

Offer Encouragement to Someone Who Has Failed an Exam or Test

Failing an exam can make someone feel really bad about themselves, not to mention embarrassed. You may also be afraid that your parents may reprimand or punish you for it. However, there are lots of ways you can encourag...

How to

Tell a Female Best Friend You've Developed Feelings for Her

Developing feelings for a female best friend can feel like you’ve just stepped off a plane into a foreign country: everything is confusing and alien. Acting on your feelings takes courage, so good for you! But before y...

How to

Cope With Having No Friends

Having meaningful friendships is an asset in life, but in some chapters you might find yourself without any close friends. If this describes your current situation, you can learn to cope by practicing self-compassion and...

How to

Be Consistent

Consistency is a great characteristic to build and implement in your life. The key to consistency is setting and achieving specific goals. Start by determining how you want to be more consistent in your life, and aim f...

How to

Answer when Someone Asks How You Are

People ask the question “How are you?” in conversation as a way to greet you and engage with you. Answering this question can be tricky, and you may not be sure the best way to respond. In professional situations at ...

How to

Overcome an Infatuation

When infatuation turns from euphoria to obsession, it’s time to make some changes. Constantly thinking of someone can take a toll on your life and cause an unhealthy mental situation. The good news is you don’t have ...

How to

Have the Dreams You Want

Dreams can have a powerful effect on our waking lives. They reflect our hopes and fears about the future and even help us revisit our pasts. Whether you want to learn how to lucid dream (i.e. actively control and be awa...

How to

Deal With Asking out and Being Rejected by a Girl

Getting rejected is a normal part of dating that everyone experiences at some point. Though you may feel incredibly hurt or embarrassed after it happens, there are a number of things you can do to work through your rejec...

How to

Be Determined

Determination is a skill that can be learned! Start by figuring out what you want. Then, create healthy habits that increase your chances of reaching your goals. Stick with your determination over the long run by using s...

How to

Communicate With a Guy After He Rejected You

Putting yourself out there can be a scary thing. And it can seem even worse after you’ve been rejected by the guy you like. But you can’t sit around and feel sorry for yourself forever, especially if the guy is someo...

How to

Comfort Someone Who Is Crying

Many times you may find your friend/coworker crying or upset. You may want to help someone who’s crying but not know where to start. The most important part is to show that you care. Extend any help that you can and su...