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堂表亲之间的关系可以非常亲密深厚。也许你们曾经十分亲密,但由于现实距离、误会,甚至是你们家庭内部的问题,彼此逐渐疏远了。无论哪种情况,你都可以让你的堂表亲喜欢你,使双方更加重视彼此之间的关系。[1]
步骤
- 联系她。与你的堂表亲重新建立联系是赢得她的信任并让她喜欢你的正确步骤。[2] 你的第一条信息应该尽量简单,避免因为太过突然而让彼此不知所措。
- 你可以使用各种方法联系堂表亲,包括信件、电子邮件或电话。你也可以使用社交媒体,(重新)添加她为微信好友,或在微博上关注她。这一简单的举动能够为进一步的交流打下基础。
- 开始时发一条简单的信息,例如说:“我们以前关系多好啊。我想你了。如果你愿意的话,我希望我们可以多联系。”这类信息能够让她知道你的感受,并让她去选择是否需要进一步联系。
- 不要提之前的矛盾或任何家庭问题。以后会有合适的时间和场合来谈论这些事情,当时机到来,你们做好了敞开心扉的准备时,通常你们自己就会有所察觉。[3]
- 不要以任何方式去侮辱或责备她。如果你不知道说什么话来释放善意,最好等到你能够以积极、尊重的态度对待她时再去联系。
- 如果你没有堂表亲的联系信息,可以询问家庭成员,或使用百度等网络搜索引擎,搜索她的邮箱地址或电话号码。
- 在非家庭聚会上见面。一旦有机会与堂表亲建立稳定的联系,你可以提议见面。但是,不要约在家庭聚会上见面。这种场合见面压力很大,可能使问题更加严重。
- 第一次见面应尽量简单。喝杯咖啡,共进午餐,看场电影,观看体育赛事,这些都是不错的选择。见面越来越频繁后,你可以延长见面的时间。
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- 保持联系。如果你有段时间不能经常和堂表亲联系或见面,这是十分正常的。但即使是发些“你好,希望你一切顺利”这样简单的信息也能够让她知道她对你很重要。
- 利用微信、微博等,在网上与你的堂表亲保持联系。
- 和她打电话,或向她发送信息。你可以发送传统短信息,也可以使用QQ、微信等免费的通讯服务。
- 微信、QQ等应用程序的在线视频聊天功能提供了一种更加私人化的沟通方式,也降低了保持联系的难度。
- 保持彼此尊重、良好友善的关系。人际关系有起有落十分正常,但对堂表亲保持尊重,整体态度上保持积极,这有助于你们关系的长期维系。[35]广告
参考
- ↑ http://www.grandparents.com/family-and-relationships/family-matters/keeping-cousins-together-curtis-wilson
- ↑ http://www.grandparents.com/family-and-relationships/family-matters/keeping-cousins-together-curtis-wilson
- ↑ http://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2015/01/27/13-habits-of-exceptionally-likeable-people/2/
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://philmckinney.com/archives/2010/08/11-simple-rules-for-getting-along-with-others.html
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://philmckinney.com/archives/2010/08/11-simple-rules-for-getting-along-with-others.html
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://philmckinney.com/archives/2010/08/11-simple-rules-for-getting-along-with-others.html
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://philmckinney.com/archives/2010/08/11-simple-rules-for-getting-along-with-others.html
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://www.grandparents.com/family-and-relationships/family-matters/keeping-cousins-together-curtis-wilson
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://www.grandparents.com/family-and-relationships/family-matters/keeping-cousins-together-curtis-wilson
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2015/01/27/13-habits-of-exceptionally-likeable-people/2/
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://www.grandparents.com/family-and-relationships/family-matters/keeping-cousins-together-curtis-wilson
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://www.grandparents.com/family-and-relationships/family-matters/keeping-cousins-together-curtis-wilson
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://philmckinney.com/archives/2010/08/11-simple-rules-for-getting-along-with-others.html
- ↑ http://time.com/135945/make-people-like-you/
- ↑ http://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2015/01/27/13-habits-of-exceptionally-likeable-people/2/
- ↑ http://classroom.synonym.com/along-cousins-7169.html
- ↑ http://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2015/01/27/13-habits-of-exceptionally-likeable-people/2/
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