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究竟几岁开始化妆比较合适?不管你是想要帮助孩子度过这段人生必经之路的家长,还是想要用社交媒体上看到的热门妆容来表达自己的中学生或高中生,你可能想知道几岁开始化妆比较合适。本文可以帮助你和家人了解最适合自己的做法,并给想要学习化妆的小孩提供一些建议。
步骤
Question 1 的 5:
小孩通常几岁开始化妆?
- 当然,你家的小孩不想要化妆也没问题。他们可能会因为同辈压力而觉得自己不得不化妆,但是提醒他们内在比外在更重要。与其专注在外表,不如帮助孩子培养技巧,追求激情,并在他们挑战困难时表扬他们的努力。[5] 最重要的是用积极的口吻谈论自己的外貌,以身作则教会他们建立对自己身体的自信。[6]
- 你可以这样表扬孩子所做的选择和努力:“我可以看到你有多努力叠好自己的衣服,而且很高兴你挑选了一件能够凸显自己性格的上衣。”
- 不要在孩子面前批评自己的身材,以身作则才能教会他们树立正面的身体形象。
- 举个例子,你可以这样说:“我喜欢自己的腿和臀部,因为它们足够强壮,让我可以带着你四处走。我喜欢自己的笑纹,因为它们让我想起自己经常被你逗笑。”
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Question 2 的 5:
化妆是否对小孩不好?
Question 3 的 5:
家长如何跟孩子谈论化妆这件事?
- 持不批判的态度。告诉孩子有任何关于化妆的问题或疑虑,随时都能问你。批判他们化妆可能会伤害他们的自尊心,并养成任意打量他人外貌这种负面习惯。[12]
- 询问他们想要化妆的原因,从而展开一段有意义的对话。
- 你可以这样说:“你可以告诉我为什么你对化妆感兴趣吗?”
- 如果他们对自己的外貌没有自信,告诉他们不需要靠化妆来获得自信。
- 你可以说:“我喜欢你化妆时展现的创意,不过我希望你知道不管你有没有化妆,都一样漂亮。”
- 规定孩子可以使用哪些化妆品。就像你规定孩子的屏幕使用时间、宵禁时间和负责的家务一样,你也需要规定适用于孩子的化妆规则。首先明确哪些产品可以使用,哪些妆容过于成熟或不符合孩子的年龄。[16] 在决定适合孩子使用的化妆品时,你可以参考下面的指南:
- 让青春期前和刚踏入青春期的孩子尝试有色保湿霜、浅色唇彩和棕色眉笔或眉膏。不要让这个年龄段的孩子使用厚重的粉底和口红。[17]
- 允许12-13岁的小孩使用遮盖粉刺的遮瑕膏、眼影、眼线笔、油性皮肤适用的散粉和涂薄薄一层睫毛膏。
- 允许青少年开始使用更厚重的粉底、修容古铜粉或高光粉、腮红和口红。
- 如果十几岁的孩子想要化大胆一点的妆容,告诉他们强调眼妆或唇妆就好,不要同时有两个以上的重点,以免看起来过于浓妆艳抹。[18]
- 解释你会在孩子化太浓的妆时开口提醒他们。
- 举个例子,你可以说:“你可以尝试化妆,不过在你出门之前,如果我觉得你化的妆太过火了,我一定会开口说出来,然后你自己决定是否要卸掉。我相信你会做出明智的选择。”
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Question 4 的 5:
孩子应该如何跟家长说自己想要开始化妆?
- 直接展开对话。告诉家长你想要化妆,询问他们的意见。你可能不敢开口询问,担心家长说不。不过,即使他们现在拒绝,不代表以后也会拒绝。你们或许能在多次讨论后找到折衷的解决方法。[19]
- “妈妈,我想和你讨论化妆的事。现在方便谈谈吗?”
- “爸爸,我对化妆很感兴趣。你有什么看法?”
- 询问家长时,要表现成熟。让家长看到你可以像大人一样成熟地处理事情,就像这次礼貌地请求他们允许你化妆,而不是一昧发牢骚或抱怨。如果他们严肃地拒绝你,虽然很失望,但你还是得暂时接受他们的决定,安慰自己他们以后可能会改变主意。[22]
- 如果你不同意,可以说:“我有不同的看法。我认为......”
- 让家长知道你有把他们的意见听进去:“我了解你的观点......”或是“我了解你要说的是......”
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参考
- ↑ https://makeup.lovetoknow.com/makeup-tips/middle-school-makeup
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/does-your-child-want-to-wear-makeup-5-things-you-should-know/
- ↑ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/children-makeup-smartphone-age-young-fathers-parents-yougov-a9075971.html
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/does-your-child-want-to-wear-makeup-5-things-you-should-know/
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/self-esteem.html
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/body-image.html
- ↑ https://www.girlshealth.gov/body/grooming/makeup.html
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/eyeliner-bad-eyes-keep-makeup-harming-health/
- ↑ https://www.healthyway.com/content/how-young-is-too-young-for-makeup/
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2013/01/02/does-makeup-hurt-self-esteem/makeup-can-provide-a-fleeting-confidence-boost-to-some
- ↑ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2021/03/210308111852.htm
- ↑ https://www.healthyway.com/content/how-young-is-too-young-for-makeup/
- ↑ https://www.girlshealth.gov/body/grooming/makeup.html
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/does-your-child-want-to-wear-makeup-5-things-you-should-know/
- ↑ https://www.healthychildren.org/English/safety-prevention/at-home/Pages/Face-Paints-Makeup-Toxic-Ingredients.aspx
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/does-your-child-want-to-wear-makeup-5-things-you-should-know/
- ↑ https://makeup.lovetoknow.com/makeup-tips/middle-school-makeup
- ↑ https://makeup.lovetoknow.com/makeup-tips/middle-school-makeup
- ↑ https://www.kidshealth.org/en/teens/talk-to-parents.html
- ↑ https://www.kidshealth.org/en/teens/talk-to-parents.html
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2013/01/02/does-makeup-hurt-self-esteem/makeup-can-provide-a-fleeting-confidence-boost-to-some
- ↑ https://www.kidshealth.org/en/teens/talk-to-parents.html
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/does-your-child-want-to-wear-makeup-5-things-you-should-know/
- ↑ https://www.consumerreports.org/sunscreens/will-moisturizers-with-spf-protect-your-skin/
- ↑ https://makeup.lovetoknow.com/makeup-tips/middle-school-makeup
- ↑ https://makeup.lovetoknow.com/makeup-tips/middle-school-makeup
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