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While not every single person affected by narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is guaranteed to cheat on their partner, certain traits of narcissists can make them more likely than the average person to be unfaithful. NPD is officially classified as a mental health disorder that causes people to have an unreasonably high sense of self-importance. Keep reading to learn about why narcissists may be more prone to infidelity from a psychological perspective. We’ll also give a list of signs that might indicate a cheating partner and what to do if you find yourself in this difficult situation.
Things You Should Know
- Someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) might cheat due to poor impulse control, dissatisfaction in their relationship, or low self-esteem.
- Signs that a narcissist may be cheating include long, unexplained absences, love-bombing their partner to make them feel guilty, and becoming very defensive when confronted.
- Express your thoughts and feelings clearly when confronting a narcissist and have them repeat your feelings back to you so that they’re forced to acknowledge them.
Steps
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Warnings
- Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health disorder. If you think someone you know may be affected by this disorder, talk to a mental health professional as soon as possible to discuss treatment.[28]Thanks
- If you are in an abusive relationship, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 to get immediate help.[29]Thanks
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