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So you've been chatting with a guy, but then all of a sudden, he just disappears. If you thought the convo was going well, you're probably left wondering why the guy ghosted you. Even though it may hurt, know that a guy ghosting you isn't your fault. There are actually a lot of reasons why guys ghost that have nothing to do with the person they ghosted. Keep reading to find out why a guy may stop messaging you and what you can do to feel better.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed clinical psychologist and relationship coach, Sarah Schewitz, founder of Couples Learn. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Some guys ghost because they don't know how to cut off communication more directly.
- They may not be ready for a serious commitment, but want to avoid confrontation or protect you from being hurt.
- Sometimes, guys ghost because something happens unexpectedly in their personal life.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Remember that someone ghosting you isn’t your fault and that there’s someone out there for you. You’ll be able to find another person that’s excited to spend time and talk with you.[10]Thanks
- If you’ve been ghosted a few times, try taking it slow and being upfront about your relationship expectations when you first start talking. That way, a guy will know that you expect him to communicate.[11]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/202111/4-reasons-why-people-ghost
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/reasons-youve-been-ghosted#ghosting-explained
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/reasons-youve-been-ghosted#ghosting-explained
- ↑ https://www.psycom.net/what-is-ghosting
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toxic-relationships/202001/were-you-ghosted-learn-why-and-how-respond-when-it-happens
- ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/why-men-go-mia-dating
- ↑ https://www.psycom.net/what-is-ghosting
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/202111/4-reasons-why-people-ghost
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toxic-relationships/202001/were-you-ghosted-learn-why-and-how-respond-when-it-happens
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