This article was co-authored by Ken Breniman, LCSW, C-IAYT and by How.com.vn staff writer, Devin McSween. Ken Breniman is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Yoga Therapist and Thanatologist based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Ken has over 15 years experience of providing clinical support and community workshops utilizing a dynamic combination of traditional psychotherapy and yoga therapy. He specializes in eclectic non-denominational yoga guidance, grief therapy, complex trauma recovery and mindful mortal skills development. He has a MSW from Washington University in St. Louis and an MA Certification in Thanatology from Marian University of Fond du Lac. He became certified with the International Association of Yoga Therapists after completing his 500 training hours at Yoga Tree in San Francisco and Ananda Seva Mission in Santa Rosa, CA.
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Sending flowers is a timeless gesture that expresses sympathy to someone grieving a lost loved one. However, if the family explicitly asked for other forms of condolences, or if you’re searching for something else that offers your respects and support, it can be hard to know what to send instead. To help you during this difficult time, we’ve compiled a list of practical, helpful, and thoughtful items you can send someone instead of flowers.
Things You Should Know
- Make a handwritten sympathy card or photo album for a thoughtful gift that the family can look back on.
- Create a self-care basket or take care of meals and household chores for a practical gift that supports the family as they’re grieving.
- Send the family a memorial tree, candle, or necklace for a sentimental gift that allows them to remember their loved one.
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References
- ↑ https://www.molesfarewelltributes.com/blog/what-to-send-after-someone-dies-instead-of-flowers/
- ↑ https://www.cruse.org.uk/about/blog/send-instead-flowers-someone-dies/
- ↑ https://www.molesfarewelltributes.com/blog/what-to-send-after-someone-dies-instead-of-flowers/
- ↑ https://beyondthedash.com/blog/etiquette-and-advice/how-to-express-sympathy-in-lieu-of-flowers-request/7444
- ↑ https://www.funeralguide.co.uk/blog/5-alternatives-to-sympathy-flowers
- ↑ https://www.willed.com.au/guides/unique-sympathy-gifts/
- ↑ https://www.suggest.com/unique-and-thoughtful-sympathy-gifts-that-arent-flowers/2551949/
- ↑ https://www.cruse.org.uk/about/blog/send-instead-flowers-someone-dies/
- ↑ https://beyondthedash.com/blog/etiquette-and-advice/how-to-express-sympathy-in-lieu-of-flowers-request/7444
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