This article was written by Nicole Moore and by How.com.vn staff writer, Dan Hickey. Nicole Moore is a Love and Relationship Coach and the Founder and CEO of Love Works Method, a private coaching and digital course service for women looking to find the right partner. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in body language and helping others take control of their dating life, attract a partner, and build a strong relationship. Nicole has been featured in numerous publications such as Cosmopolitan, Forbes, and USA Today. She also hosts Love Works with Nicole Moore, a podcast for modern women wanting love, dating, and relationship advice. Nicole holds a BA in Public Relations and Spanish from Syracuse University and a Certificate in Personal Coaching from New York University.
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In theory, we all know what we like in bed, so why is it so hard to answer that question when a guy asks us? It’s OK not to know exactly what to say when you’re talking about sex—it can feel silly, awkward, or vulnerable to open up about your desires whether you’re in a relationship or not. That’s why we’ve put together a handy guide to help you express your wishes. Read on for a thorough list of things you can say and how to say them when a guy asks you, “What do you like in bed?”
This article is based on an interview with our love and relationship coach, Nicole Moore, founder and CEO of Love Works Method. Check out the full interview here.
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- Be direct when you ask for or describe what you like. The less vague you are, the better idea he’ll have of how to please you.[12]Thanks
- Consent matters every step of the way. If he’s doing anything that makes you uncomfortable during sex, tell him to stop and stick firmly to your boundaries.Thanks
- Allow him space to share any desires or changes he’d like to make to your sex life too. Sex is something that the two of you can improve together to benefit your relationship as a whole.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.herworld.com/life/sex-love/communicate-sex-love-tips-partner/
- ↑ https://www.self.com/story/how-you-want-to-feel-sex
- ↑ https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/asking-for-what-you-want-during-sex
- ↑ https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/asking-for-what-you-want-during-sex
- ↑ https://metro.co.uk/2020/06/19/how-tell-partner-what-want-bed-12874684/
- ↑ https://www.vice.com/en/article/mbk4z8/exactly-how-to-tell-your-partner-what-you-want-in-bed
- ↑ https://www.herworld.com/life/sex-love/communicate-sex-love-tips-partner/
- ↑ https://www.vice.com/en/article/mbk4z8/exactly-how-to-tell-your-partner-what-you-want-in-bed
- ↑ https://www.herworld.com/life/sex-love/communicate-sex-love-tips-partner/
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