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So, you like a guy and you want to be the one to text first? Go for it! There are no hard and fast rules about who should be texting first in relationships, regardless of the people involved. If you’re tired of waiting for him to text, then take initiative and let him know you’re interested. Done correctly, a first text can be captivating, engaging, and sure to provoke a response. Here, we’ll show you exactly how to text a guy for the first time, complete with examples, so crafting that first text won't be a struggle any more.
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Tips
- Try to text the same way he’s texting in order to see if he’s interested in you. If he starts showing some interest, such as constant texting, memes, inviting you for a drink, then it’s a clear sign that you can go ahead and text more.Thanks
- It’s important to not show all your interest at once or too quickly, or you run the risk of scaring the guy.Thanks
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- ↑ https://socialself.com/blog/become-friends-text/
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- ↑ https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-text-someone-you-want-to-date-2017-2
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