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When you’re hardcore crushing on someone, the last thing you want to hear is that they’re not into you in the same way. (Trust us, been there, done that.) But knowing for sure that the apple of your eye doesn't return your feelings can help you let go and move on sooner. (Who knows, maybe you'll even meet someone better!) If you’ve been crushing on someone and you’re starting to suspect they might not feel the same way about you, this article is for you. We’ve compiled a list of expert-backed signs that the person you’re into doesn’t feel the same way. Check them out below.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed relationship therapist, Alysha Jeney, owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the co-founder of The Modern Love Box. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Observe how they act around you: do they treat you like they treat everyone else? If they don’t act like you're special, they’re probably not interested.
- See if they remember details about you and seem to want to develop a close, personal relationship. If not, your crush might be one-sided.
- Listen to your gut. Deep down, you can probably sense whether your crush shares your feelings.
- Remember that if they don’t like you back, it’s not a reflection of your worth. There are plenty of other people out there who will appreciate how awesome you are!
Steps
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Expert Q&A
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