So, there’s this guy. When he’s nearby, your stomach does somersaults and you can’t seem to say anything right. But are these butterflies because you genuinely like him or because you like the idea of him?
Emotions can be tricky to decipher, so we’ve put together this quiz to help you out. Answer these questions about how you feel about that special guy to learn if you’re totally crushing, want to stay in the friend zone, or just like the attention.
Questions Overview
- Eh, every once in a while.
- Fairly often. We’re friends, after all!
- Every day. I’m even daydreaming about him.
- Not a moment goes by when I don’t think of him.
- Put on some perfume. But it’s for any guy I come across.
- Think of the best way to embarrass him, for old times' sake.
- Wear a super cute outfit so he’ll definitely notice me.
- Wait by the door to tell him a clever one-liner I’ve rehearsed.
- Only for homework help.
- Of course! What friend doesn’t have another friend’s number?
- Not yet. I’m too scared to ask.
- Yep. How else will he ask me out?
- Nah. I’d rather hang out with my friends.
- Probably. Maybe we’ll go to a movie with our friend group.
- I want to! I just have to muster up the courage to ask.
- Of course! We spend most weekends together.
- Convenient. He’s always there when I need him.
- Wholesome. He’s my ride-or-die.
- New. I don’t even know if he knows my name.
- Honest. I like that we don't have secrets.
- My friends, duh.
- The group chat with our mutual friends.
- My friends while he’s around—hopefully he’ll overhear us.
- Him, of course!
- What I’ll wear for the day. There are people to impress.
- Food. Maybe I’ll text him to grab Taco Bell before class.
- How I’ll run into him today. I know his schedule by heart.
- What good morning text I’ll send him.
- No. Should I?
- Yeah! I’d be a really bad friend if I didn’t.
- Maybe…is that stalking?
- Absolutely! I already know what I’m getting him.
- Annoyed, but I like the company.
- Happy but irritated sometimes, like he’s my little brother.
- Nervous and giggly. It’s like he puts a spell on me!
- Warm, safe, and loved. He’s truly the best.
- Keep talking to my friends. He’ll sit where he wants.
- Call him over to join my group of friends.
- Smile. I desperately want him to notice me.
- Think about how lucky I am to have him in my life.
- Once or twice, but it doesn’t excite me.
- Ew—gross! That would be like kissing my brother!
- All the time! It’s practically all I think about.
- Why imagine it when it’s already my reality?
- That he’s too good for me.
- That we’re just an accident waiting to happen.
- That we’d be super cute together.
- That we should just get together already.
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What to Do When You Like Someone
Your heart is beating a mile a minute. Your face is red. Your hands are clammy. And it’s all because he said, “Hey.” Crushes sure can be nerve-wracking. How do you know what to say and do to capture his attention? Luckily for you, we’re here to help! Check out these flirtatious behaviors and comments you can use to make sure he looks your way:
Smile. If he makes you happy, why not show it? Laugh, smile, and giggle when he’s around. Not only will this help him feel warm and comfortable around you, but it’ll also help you shine.
Make eye contact. Looking into those dreamy eyes may seem daunting, but it’s one of the best ways to show your confidence and interest. Simply keep his gaze while he talks to you, and don’t look away when you speak to him. After all, the eyes are the window to the soul.
Lean in. This is a not-so-subtle way to show him you’re interested. Take every opportunity to sit next to him. Let your shoulders or knees brush. Scooch in close while he talks. Position yourself in a way that says, “Hey, I’m into you.”
Ask thoughtful questions. Take some time to get to know him and his interests. Stick with open-ended questions like, “What’s your favorite movie?” and “What’s your favorite childhood memory?”
Be yourself. The most important rule of dating: be authentically you. If he tries to change you, he’s not worth your time! Let him see your flaws, insecurities, and quirks—they’re a part of you, and you shouldn’t have to hide them for someone else.
Want to learn more?
For more information about crushes and dating, check out these resources:
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-digitally/202006/how-flirt-effectively
- https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/tips-for-finding-lasting-love.htm
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201904/how-tell-if-someone-has-crush-you
- https://www.thecut.com/article/things-to-talk-about-with-your-crush.html
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