Sexuality. It’s complex, personal, and ever-evolving. So, how do you know if you’re straight, gay, or something in between?
We know questioning your sexuality can be tough, so we’ve put together this quiz to help. Simply answer these questions about your most intimate fantasies, crushes, and relationships to learn if you’re heterosexual or fit into the LGBTQ+ spectrum.
Questions Overview
- The opposite sex, but I thought all celebrities were hot.
- The cutest celebrity of the opposite sex.
- I don’t know. I idolized lots of people.
- The hottest cartoon character of the same sex.
- Wave and strike up a conversation. I’m open to new things.
- Smile but let them know I’m not into them that way.
- Blush. Should I talk to them?
- Flirt back—I’m single and ready to mingle!
- Nope, but I wouldn’t mind trying.
- No, and I wouldn’t dream of doing it.
- Yeah, and I kind of liked it.
- Of course! What else would I do after a date?
- Not that I know of, but I wouldn’t be opposed to it.
- No. Unless you count platonic feelings.
- Maybe, but I’m not sure.
- Yep! It happens more often than you’d think.
- Consider if I should kiss them to see what it’s like.
- Think about how I’m going to die a virgin.
- Ask them about themselves. Maybe they’d be into me…
- Make out. We might as well enjoy our final moments together.
- I’d maybe kiss them, just to see how it was.
- I’d hug a friend who needs a friend’s support.
- I’d go all the way, maybe.
- I’d hit all the bases and keep coming back for more.
- Indifferent. I wouldn’t be offended, but it’s not my label.
- Odd. I don’t resonate with that label.
- Alright. It’s not how I identify, but they’re not entirely wrong.
- Thrilled. I’m glad they caught on!
- Excited! I’m always down for a good time.
- Alright, but it’s not really my scene.
- Nervous. What if I meet someone I like?
- Hopeful. Maybe I’ll find a new boo.
- Nope, but I wouldn’t be upset if I did.
- Never. My fantasies involve the opposite sex.
- Sometimes. It depends on who I’m falling for.
- All the time! The opposite sex doesn’t appeal to me.
- How sweet! I wonder what that feels like…
- That’s cute, but I don’t give it a second thought.
- Man, I wish that was me.
- I have to call my partner—that should be us on a romantic date!
- Squeal and tell them they must take me to all the gay bars.
- Hug them and let them know I’m an ally.
- Wonder if they can help me learn more about myself.
- Think about saying, “Me too.”
- Probably a partner of the opposite sex, but who knows?
- Someone of the opposite sex, definitely.
- I’m not sure. The image constantly changes.
- Someone of the same sex, for sure.
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Straight, Gay & Other LGBTQ+ Terminology
In this day and age, there are more terms than ever to help you label your gender identity and sexuality. So many, in fact, that it can be easy to feel out of the loop—that’s why we’re here to help. Read on to find all the answers to some of your most frequently asked questions.
What is the LGBTQ+ acronym short for?
There isn’t actually an “official” definition for this acronym since gender identity and sexual identity (and their corresponding labels) are so personal and subjective to each individual. Here’s a closer look at some of the most common terms/labels used by the LGBTQ+ community:
- Lesbian: A woman or non-binary person who experiences attraction toward other women.
- Gay: Any individual who experiences attraction to someone of the same gender identity. Historically, this term was used exclusively for men.
- Bisexual: An individual who’s attracted to the same gender identity and at least one other gender identity (e.g., a man being attracted to other men as well as women).
- Transgender: A person whose gender identity is different than the gender they were assigned at birth.
- Queer: An umbrella term for people whose gender identities don’t fall within the cisgender binary (male or female individuals who identify as the gender they were assigned at birth) or heteronormative paradigm (male/female relationships). Although “queer” was historically used as a slur, the modern LGBTQ+ community has since reclaimed it and widely uses it.
- Questioning: A term used for people who are figuring out what their gender identity and/or sexuality is.
- Asexual: A term used for individuals who experience a lack of sexual attraction. Asexuality exists on a spectrum, and the asexual experience varies depending on the person.
What does straight mean?
Straight is a word used to describe people who only experience sexual attraction to people of the opposite gender. It means the same thing as “heterosexual,” though you’ve probably heard the term “straight” used more often.
Are straight people members of the LGBTQ+ community?
Not quite, but they can definitely be allies of the community! While the modern world has made strides in acknowledging and accepting members of the queer community, there’s still a long way to go before LGBTQ+ individuals can feel completely safe and welcomed in society. Here are a few ways you can show your support:
- Call out inequality when you see it. If you witness someone saying, posting, or participating in any kind of homophobic or transphobic behavior, call them out and remind them that what they’re saying/doing isn’t okay.
- Offer a listening ear to current queer issues. One of the best ways to be an ally is to give queer individuals the time and space to vocalize their experiences and the issues affecting them. Let their voices dominate the conversation rather than your own.
- Support queer businesses and charities. By giving your time and money to queer establishments, you’re making an active effort to support members of the LGBTQ+ community.
- Give queer voices a platform. If someone in your life seems curious about LGBTQ+ issues, point them toward social media accounts, books, and other works of media managed or published by queer individuals.
Want to learn more?
For more information about sexuality and the LGBTQ+ community, check out these resources:
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