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So, there’s this girl you’ve had your eye on for ages. She’s everything you could possibly want, but you don’t think she’s aware you exist. Well, have you tried the push-pull method? This flirting style is a lot like teasing and may help a girl be more attracted to you. Read on to learn what push-pull flirting is all about and how to use it properly.
Things You Should Know
- Push-pull is a flirting style that alternates between showing interest and disinterest in a crush.
- For example, try alternating between closed-off and open body language, or be the first one to pull away from a kiss.
- Try not to rely exclusively on push-pull. Some people don’t respond well to this technique and find it manipulative.
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Expert Q&A
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References
- ↑ https://youtu.be/3ObDYK5JYug?t=159
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8229315/
- ↑ https://youtu.be/JlDugGDAHzA?t=156
- ↑ https://hernorm.com/signs-your-crush-doesnt-like-you/
- ↑ https://www.npr.org/2021/07/11/1014019821/flirting-how-to-dating-romance-advice
- ↑ https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2001-17232-005
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