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Losing a pet of any kind is nothing short of devastating—it may feel like your world is ending, and the tears may never seem to stop. How can you ever feel okay again when you’ve lost such an irreplaceable part of your life? More than anything else, it’s important to remember that your feelings are valid. Pets are like members of the family, and it’s understandable (and completely normal) to grieve for them in the same way, too. We’re here to support you during this incredibly difficult time by sharing what you can potentially expect during the grieving process, and, most importantly, how you can start to heal while still honoring your precious pet.
Things You Should Know
- Losing a pet is a deeply sad and upsetting experience. Crying and mourning for your beloved friend is completely valid and normal.
- Take around 8-10 deep breaths if you’d like to give yourself a break from crying. Distracting yourself by shifting your focus can also be helpful.
- Give yourself the time and space to feel your emotions, and share how you’re feeling with a trusted friend or loved one if you need it.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Need someone to talk to? Cornell’s College of Veterinary Medicine manages a pet loss support hotline on Monday through Friday from 6:00 PM to 9:00 PM EST, as well as on the weekends from 12:00 PM to 9:00 PM EST. You can reach them at: (607) 218-7457.[22]Thanks
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- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/health/how-to-stop-crying#breathe
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