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Wondering if your girlfriend is in the mood for a little romance? We've decoded all the signs that a woman is turned on, from the way she'll look at you to what she'll say and do. If you want to know if your girlfriend is horny, then read on—after you check out these tips, you’ll know exactly what’s on her mind!
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- QuestionHow can my girlfriend and I get horny at the same time?Jacqueline HellyerJacqueline Hellyer is a Licensed Psychosexual Therapist and the Founder of The Love Life Blog and The LoveLife Clinic. With over 20 years of experience, Jacqueline specializes in sex advice, sex tips, and relationship advice. In addition to being an accredited Psychosexual Therapist with the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS), Jacqueline is also a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF). Jacqueline holds a BSc in Biochemistry and Human Sciences from The Australian National University, a Graduate Diploma in Applied Science from the University of Canberra, a BA in Languages and Literature from the University of New England (AU), an MSc in Sexual Health from The University of Sydney, and an MSc in Consciousness, Spirituality & Transpersonal Psychology from The Alef Trust. Her work and expertise have been featured in Australian Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Australian Women’s Health, Marie Claire, and 60 Minutes.
Licensed Psychosexual TherapistTalk about sex! Most people think that sex will just happen, but it's actually something you need to talk about with your partner. It's totally normal for partners to be horny at different times, but being open and honest can help you have more sex. Get comfortable with telling each other when you want to have sex so you can try to sync up. - QuestionWhat does "horny" mean?BrettCommunity AnswerIt means to desire sex. If you think about sex a lot, you're horny.
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/202204/how-men-and-women-flirt-body-language
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- ↑ https://greatist.com/health/kissing-tips
- ↑ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/ask-experts/i-see-on-movies-and-here-people-talking-about-4play-i-wanted-to-know-what-this-meant
- ↑ https://www.britannica.com/topic/human-sexual-activity/Sociosexual-activity
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- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a3676/foreplay-tips/
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- ↑ https://www.health.harvard.edu/heart-health/be-still-my-beating-heart
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If you want to know if your girlfriend is horny, look for physical cues. If she's looking you up and down or checking you out a lot, that could be a clue that she's excited. Also, pay attention to how she responds to you. If she blushes more, or looks at your lips a lot when you talk, those may be signs that she really wants to kiss you. Watch out for signs that she's being more physically affectionate than normal. Maybe she runs her hand down your back, pats your hip, strokes your face, or squeezes your leg. Take note of verbal or more obvious clues as well. Maybe the tone of her voice is lower and more seductive, she teases you with sexy innuendos, or she seems to be gushing about how good you look lately.
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