This article was co-authored by Cher Gopman and by How.com.vn staff writer, Eric McClure. Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
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Even the most confident-looking people out there get butterflies in their gut when it comes to talking to their crush. You are not weak for taking a pause here—especially if you don’t have decades in the dating game. The good news is that all of this is going to be much easier as soon as you can push yourself to take that first step and push “send.” Once the first text is out there, you can just let the conversation develop organically. In the meantime, if you need an extra boost of courage or confidence, you’re in the right place!
This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach, Cher Gopman, founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC. Check out the full interview here.
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