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If you’ve been single for a while, you might be wondering how you can land a girlfriend—and fast. While there’s no miraculous way to make a girl fall in love with you, there are a few ways you can put yourself out there and set yourself up for success. Keep reading to learn where you can meet potential dates and how you can approach them to ask them out.
Things You Should Know
- Dating apps, mutual friends, clubs, and social media are all great ways to meet new people (like future girlfriends, for instance!).
- If you hit it off with a girl, ask her on a date. Keep building your connection and when you feel ready, ask her to be your girlfriend.
- If it doesn't work out, don't get discouraged. Instead, get back out there and try again.
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- Try not to focus too much on getting a girlfriend, and instead focus on meeting cool new people. It will put less pressure on you and set you up for success.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201408/how-and-where-meet-women-or-men
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a25046603/how-to-get-a-girlfriend-boyfriend/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201408/how-and-where-meet-women-or-men
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/tips-for-finding-lasting-love.htm/
- ↑ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2017/09/11/put-down-that-phone-heres-how-to-meet-potential-dates-without-apps/
- ↑ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2017/09/11/put-down-that-phone-heres-how-to-meet-potential-dates-without-apps/
- ↑ [v161073_b01]. 13 December 2018.
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/how-to-ask-someone-out-respectfully/
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/tips-for-finding-lasting-love.htm/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201302/avoiding-the-friend-zone-becoming-girlfriend-or-boyfriend
- ↑ https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-right-for-you-2018-2
- ↑ https://www.mantelligence.com/how-to-ask-a-girl-to-be-your-girlfriend/
- ↑ https://www.mantelligence.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/
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