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Are you in a LDR with a great guy and want to make sure he commits to you and only you? With all those miles between you, the distance can sometimes feel daunting, but don’t worry! In this article, we'll tell you everything you need to know about getting him to commit to the relationship. We'll also include some tips on how to keep your connection strong and how to make sure he misses you when you're apart.
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- QuestionWhy do long term relationships get boring?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachLDRs lack the physical component of most relationships, whether that's hand-holding, kissing, or having sex. You also lack the ability to go on any spontaneous outings or spend any in-person time together. - QuestionHow do I connect with my long distance partner?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachLook for ways to include him in the day-to-day aspects of your life! For instance, you might send him a project or paper you're working on and see if he can take a second look at it.
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